I think it's better to find a strange confidant online than to chat with friends in real life. This is a better way to suggest. A true friend will sincerely convince you and guide you when you make a mistake. He doesn't care about personal gains and losses, but wants to help you correct your mistakes. As the saying goes, when the advice is the worst, ordinary friends generally don't say what others say, because such words often sound uncomfortable and easy to offend people, so ordinary friends will only turn a blind eye and only accept what you like to hear. Who wants to be idle and uncomfortable?

Second, care and love. Nowadays, people are impetuous and indifferent, and the spatial distance between people is getting shorter and shorter, but the distance between people is getting farther and farther, and there is a lack of trust and security between people. Few people will take the initiative to care for and love others. Only true friends will care about us everywhere, love us and never give up. This kind of love should be cherished.

Third, praise and encouragement. When we feel depressed and sad, in the adversity of life, he will give us comfort and encouragement instead of gloating or falling down; When we are satisfied and life is smooth, he will sincerely bless and praise us, not envy and slander. This is a true friend and worth making friends with.

Fourth, don't say dirty clothes. Friends often talk about everything, especially when talking about their own troubles, it is easy to reveal some family privacy. As the saying goes, dirty laundry spreads abroad, and true friends will keep their mouths shut when they think of us, and will not tell others about our family's privacy and spread it around.

Fifth, the meaning of wealth. Life will inevitably have ups and downs, and it will inevitably encounter all kinds of prosperity and adversity. When we are at the low tide of life, we need a lot of money when we suddenly encounter disasters or diseases. A true friend will not stand by and help us through the difficulties.