First of all, compared with the age group of 18-24 on campus, the working people aged 25 and above are in love and have begun to gradually achieve economic independence. Once you have certain economic conditions, it is normal to ask for the other half, especially girls, who may not be able to accept boys with lower income and less good career prospects.
Secondly, over the age of 25, many people will begin to think about love for the purpose of marriage. When they get married, they will consider many practical problems other than love, so it is normal for love to become more realistic. Including the other party's education, income requirements, family conditions, career planning, etc. In particular, many people began to consider the other half's registered permanent residence, free time at work and children's education. Otherwise, there won't be so many people in first-tier cities giving up high-paying jobs for an account. Many girls no longer yearn for the sweet love of campus idol dramas, but demand certain material security.
Finally, the influence of family and people around you will gradually assimilate everyone. In fact, at what stage people think about what should be considered. The older you get, the more realistic you may be.
After entering the workplace, we will find that many people have changed and lost their love. People in the workplace are more utilitarian and tend to choose bread. They are more pragmatic, or more accurately, more realistic. Houses, cars and tickets are almost the hottest topics in every blind date game. The material foundation has become the threshold of love, and some even say that the poor have no love.