Have you ever found that most people choose personality when making friends, followed by personality?

Just like netizens meet, we can only: look at the face and know a little about personality, but we don't know personality.

And I think, "It sometimes takes decades or even a lifetime to know someone."

Most people in the world don't like talking to introverts because they don't like talking. In fact, the world doesn't know that many introverts are eager for others to talk to him first, or say hello to him first. Since introverts don't say hello first, you need your initiative; Since introverts can't mobilize the atmosphere at the scene, they need you to enliven the atmosphere.

Introverts don't necessarily talk less than you, just don't like to talk more, but like to think. When everyone is talking about trivial things in life, introverts may know more than you, but they don't want to talk about it, because many topics that everyone talks about are well known, "Why talk about it?" This is the idea of an introvert. They like to talk with others about unfamiliar topics, such as things they don't know, or they are willing to listen to things they don't know.

Some introverts don't like to say hello. In fact, he has already said hello to you in his heart. You can tell by watching his eyes. He doesn't have to say "hello" or "have you eaten" to say hello. He has his own way: smile, nod and look at you.

Most people have different standards for people. They talk a lot to extroverts and don't talk at all to introverts. On the contrary, an introvert is an equal standard for others. Either he talks or he doesn't talk to anyone.

You should know a strange logic: "It's not that introverts don't talk to you, but that you don't talk to him."

An extrovert usually mingles with others, but he is likely to stay away when he meets something big. And an introverted person, although he seldom contacts with everyone at ordinary times, has a principled problem or something big happens, and he suddenly stands up to help you, which is very strange and unusual, isn't it? Many movies also reflect such people. Apart from their personalities, they are probably kinder and more affectionate than you. You look at them in a strange way.

People regard some people with special behaviors as "others". They were taciturn, unsociable, inexplicable and unexpected, but they were silent for three years and made a blockbuster. Their mouths don't move often, but the sparks of thinking often flash, and their brains are always extremely active! They can write poems while calculating, and they can sing while reading. They may tidy their quilts and desks every day, but they seldom clean their shoes. Their clothes are all torn, only to find out after a month! They are really different.

Such introverted and unusual people include Napoleon, Einstein, Van Gogh, Picasso, Chaplin, Tolstoy, Seth, Hegel and Hitler in history. ...

"When people pursue their ideals, they will fall into loneliness." Stallone