There are risks in seeking marriage, and you should be careful when making friends. This is a sentence that every adult needs to know, not only young people, but also old people who have entered the stage of knowing their destiny and listening to their ears. In recent years, the elderly population in our country has continued to expand, and among them there are countless people who have no spouse and have the intention to remarry. However, there are not so many platforms or ways for the elderly to communicate with each other, and incidents of “being cheated in love at dusk” occur frequently. On the one hand, the elderly want to be accompanied, and on the other hand, there are various traps for marriage and making friends. Let’s take a look at these marriage scams that defraud the elderly from their pensions, the relevant channels, and what needs to be paid attention to.
The development of today's era is not only reflected in technology, economy, politics, etc., but also in people's thoughts and concepts on love and marriage. In the previous society, most people did not agree with the remarriage of the elderly, but now many things have changed. In addition, it is not only the changes in ideological concepts, but also the way the elderly seek marriage or make friends today has also changed a lot from the past, such as Zhenai.com, Our Lord Liangyuan, Jiayuan and other dating websites; QQ, WeChat dating groups; focusing on the elderly Dating agencies, blind date corners, etc. for marriage and love. Although these channels provide many elderly people with choices, they also attract the attention of some people who specialize in crooked ways. When people grow old, they want to have children and grandchildren to surround them with. But sometimes, after all, children have their own careers and families to take care of, and they may not always have contact with other relatives. Then they will feel lonely and want to have someone by their side to accompany them, but Many elderly people have lost money and money under the "twilight love" scam that is full of routines.
There are endless "twilight love" traps set by scammers. Below I have summarized three common tricks. You can take a look and be more cautious when encountering them.
1. A veteran liar lurking on the marriage dating website. The elderly want to find spiritual sustenance, and there are more and more dating websites and applications established for the elderly. Through the layers of virtual filters, the elderly are easily confused by the appearance of scammers. At the beginning of the scam, the scammer will purposefully chat about the old man's psychological personality. As the relationship gradually deepens, he will start to defraud money under various pretexts. In the end, the scammer will disappear, the money will be defrauded, and the relationship will be deceived.
Second, the lover who was about to get married but disappeared. In this case, they may have gotten to know each other through some exchange activities or introductions from relatives and friends. They talked happily when they first met. Then as the relationship was officially established and they got along for longer and longer, the deceived old man thought that the relationship between the two had developed greatly. Progress: When preparing to get married, one of the scammers intentionally or unintentionally introduced investment, trading and other information to the other party. After coaxing the old man to take out his pension, he found that the other party had lost contact. This is likely to be a gang crime.
Third, after getting married, you squander all your money and file for divorce. We met online, such as in some online interest groups and dating groups, we had a good chat, and got along well after meeting offline, and we quickly finalized the marriage. After getting married, the scammer will ask to take over the financial power of the family, and Coax the other party to fill in his name on the house, then transfer or spend all the old man's savings in various ways, and finally ask for a divorce.
When old people find a wife, they originally hope to have a beautiful old age. However, it is difficult to distinguish "twilight love" scammers in life, and some old people are the kind of people who never look back when they are impulsive. Posture. So what should the elderly pay attention to when seeking marriage and making friends?
First of all, no matter how much you long for love or remarriage, you still have to be sensible. When meeting a relatively satisfactory partner, if one party repeatedly asks the other party for money on the grounds of marriage or investment, then the party being asked for money should be careful. Currently, the elderly have two channels to make friends, online or offline. However, whether online or offline, they must be wary of the "caring" olive branch offered by strangers.
In fact, middle-aged and elderly people in their 40s and 60s have needs for marriage and dating. They must not only identify the above-mentioned marriage scams, but also think about the following points. For example, what is each other's motivation for remarriage, the financial status of the other party's family, and whether they can get along with each other. Most of the middle-aged and elderly people who have gone through half of their life journey are no longer young boys pursuing love as brilliant as fireworks, but they also want to have a partner who is their own and suitable for them. In addition, economic conditions are also closely related to maintaining a harmonious family life. If you remarry in your forties or fifties and you still have to worry about your economic conditions, then you should not remarry at all.
When people over 60 years old make friends and seek marriage, they basically want someone to accompany them. This does not mean they need their children by their side, but they also don’t want to feel lonely. People in this age group pay more attention to character issues when remarrying. You must clearly see the character of the other party in the relationship. If the other party only cares about money, house and other external things, it is best to think more carefully before making a decision to avoid being involved. Money creates a gap between husband and wife and makes their children dissatisfied.
Secondly, it is now relatively common for the elderly to seek marriage, but the children of the elderly seeking marriage will inevitably worry that their father or mother will be deceived if they really meet a suitable person. People with good character can explain the situation to their children, and then seek their opinions and discuss subsequent plans. Finally, if you are still unavoidably deceived, you must call the police as soon as possible after being deceived, so that the police can help catch the scammer as soon as possible, and try to prevent others from being deceived again.