How do you make others want to get in touch with you and get closer to you in real life? A simpler way: Say thank you sincerely. From the old man at the top, to the young child at the bottom, from the boss to the noble man on the left, to the sweeper aunt and the courier boy on the right. When you receive help from others, sincerely say "thank you". Really charming. I am happy to make friends with people who like to say "thank you". Firstly, they respect other people’s personality and labor results; secondly, they can understand that they have been helped and do not take what they receive for granted; thirdly, they know how to be grateful and are generally willing to give kindness; fourthly, most of them are politically correct and Rarely do scary things. ?