During the Spring and Autumn Period, Wei Wenhou sent Yang Le to attack Zhongshan State. A minister suggested, "Yang Le's beloved son is a minister of Zhongshan State. Can his father attack his son?" When Wei Wenhou heard this, he still ignored it. He still sent Yang Le as a general to command the army. Soon, the news came that Yang Le would not attack Zhongshan State, and there were complaints inside and outside the court. Some ministers suggested that Wei Wenhou recall Yang Le as another general, but Wei Wenhou was unmoved. Wei Wenhou firmly believed in his vision and trusted Yang Le's talent and personality.

Sure enough, after a while, finally came the happy news that Yang Le defeated Zhongshan and returned home in triumph. Wei Wenhou personally greeted him out of the city and held a grand banquet to celebrate Yang Le's victory. During the dinner, Wei Wenhou gave Yang Le two boxes of special "gifts". Yang Le opened it, and it was full of impeachment documents of ministers. He was moved to tears and felt that such a "gift" was countless times more precious than gold, silver and jewelry. The next day, Yang Le thanked him, and Wei Wenhou said, "I asked you to be a general because I believe you have such talent and won't doubt it easily."

Wei Wenhou is a model of employing people. His "no doubt" won Yang Le's loyalty. If he is like those ministers who doubt Yang Le, then Yang Le will be lucky to be able to save his life if he is dismissed or put in prison. What can we talk about?

Don't doubt your friends, don't doubt them, especially when you entrust them with important tasks, don't doubt their ability and character easily, otherwise you will make a big mistake and lose your friends at the same time.

There are two friends who run a company in partnership. Party A is responsible for product development and production, and Party B is responsible for product advertising and promotion. At first, the two worked closely together and the company achieved remarkable benefits. But after a while, A began to suspect that B took kickbacks in advertisements. He took the hearsay rumors about advertising kickbacks seriously and became increasingly dissatisfied with B. After noticing the change of A, B was very sad. He never imagined that he had spent more than a penny in the company, and A was so distrustful of himself. In a rage, B really started taking kickbacks. Where's a? Since B did this to the company, why should he break his word? So, A also began to make money for himself. Imagine, how long can such a company and such a friend last?

Suspicion of a friend's most direct harm is to hurt a friend's vital character, leading to the breakdown and disappearance of feelings. The result of the rebound is that friends will have various opinions about themselves, and then they will have doubts about their previous friendship. When they no longer cherish it, they even deliberately defile and destroy it.

Therefore, if you have doubts about some of your friends' behaviors, you'd better communicate with your friends first, and try to reduce or eliminate misunderstandings to resolve your doubts.

philosophy of life

A true friend should not doubt, because to doubt a friend is to doubt one's own ability.

It is easy to doubt a friend, but it is difficult to bridge the gap caused by doubt.

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