I was a little shy when I wrote it down and shared it with you, but I never imagined that in less than a year, the seeds planted at that time actually took root. At this moment, I am already planning a wedding with my boyfriend ~
In fact, before I was 25 years old, I belonged to an emotional white girl who had never been in love. In just two years, I can quickly counterattack, meet the right person, and even become an emotional expert in the eyes of my friends. I know that all this is not a simple accident, and it takes considerable will and courage.
Especially after studying with Yi Jia, the people who are really close to Zhu Zhechi are of high quality and fruitful, which makes me instantly get through the second pulse of managing myself and my feelings, and everything is clear. So I immediately reported the good news to Yi Jia.
After successfully finding a boyfriend, I turned over my homework written in the previous emotional camp several times. To my surprise, the description of my emotional expectation and target value is infinitely close to my current boyfriend, and it also meets my core mate selection criteria, such as being enterprising, frank, considerate, caring, intelligent, connotative, caring, responsible, and a good partner in career and life.
I find it so important to have a clear goal. With a strong desire in our hearts and proper methods, each of us can find our own happiness.
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Establish your own emotional certainty.
Two months before I met my boyfriend, I tried many deep imaginations. From not thinking before, not thinking, to digging deep into inner needs, thinking boldly, and finally tasting the sweet taste brought by the law of attraction.
This is largely due to the long-term subtle influence of a teacher. The emotional camp is definitely a crucial turning point, which gives me great certainty and fills my imagination with power.
I like to compare this process to the jungle adventure of "intimacy". Most people who pass by will tell you that this road is too difficult and full of obstacles. If you don't pay attention to it, you will fall into a quagmire, making it difficult for people to extricate themselves from the life of doubt.
This is also the reason why many smart people are unwilling to explore. When they lack certainty in their hearts, it is really difficult to have a good imagination and take favorable actions.
And an emotional camp gave me 100% reason to explore this jungle: "Intimacy is the key path to growth."
When I heard this sentence, I felt so excited, with a sense of fun (novelty) and excitement of wanting to explore.
The emotional certainty comes from an emotional camp that taught us how to draw a treasure map of intimate relationships.
Let me know where the mountain is to climb, where the fog is not easy to see clearly, where the swamp is easy to fall into the pit, and how to cross it smoothly, so as to make the process full of fun and significance while enjoying the wonderful scenery of the journey.
When my heart is full of certainty, there is no obstacle to imagination. I know exactly what the other half I want and how to manage this relationship. The law of attraction will play a powerful role twice, allowing us to harvest the beautiful feelings we want.
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Cultivate people's ability to recognize people
When I was emotional, I heard a grain say, if mom is single, try boldly and make mistakes boldly, so that you can know what you want and what you don't want.
I did, and stepped on some pits. The process really tested people, and now I am super grateful in retrospect.
Because in this process of trial and error, I not only grew a lot, but also laid the foundation for defining the core criteria for mate selection.
One plus tells us that the ability to recognize people can be cultivated and transferred, and I even use it in the negotiation of work and suppliers and the communication with customers.
After constant practice, I have not only become more and more clear about people's judgment and the standard of ideal partner, but also become more and more handy in dealing with people.
This allows me to identify the right person quickly when dating, and I am not afraid of being cheated at all. I am confident, brave and highly mobile.
So when I meet the right person, I can clearly realize that the man in front of me meets my core mate selection criteria. Not only that, he is also a role model for my personal career!
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Openness is the core.
I think as a single woman, the most important thing is to be open, which is very attractive to the opposite sex, because it will let him know that he is welcome, and I think this is also the core of the bill.
One of my biggest gains in the emotional camp is that I experienced how wonderful my life is to open myself up.
At that time, it was the first time that I was a team leader in the emotional camp. I try to open myself up and pay attention to the goals and needs of the group sisters, hoping to help them realize their wishes.
At the same time, set an example and drive everyone to take many beneficial actions. In this process, my state is completely open, my attention is outward and open to the universe.
This is also the best state to take off the order. After opening yourself up, you can show the most positive attitude, full of passion, full of emotion, exploring knowledge and being extremely altruistic. This state is also the state that makes us most attractive and easy to succeed.
Now my boyfriend always says that my positive energy attracts him, that everything around me is particularly beautiful when I am with him, and that I am like a shining little sun.
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The energy of women makes everything simple and interesting.
Many sisters ask what to talk about on a date. I think the focus is not on what to talk about, but on the state and energy field we present, and female energy is the magic weapon that makes us comfortable behind.
I still remember last June165438+1October in Hangzhou offline high-energy breakthrough camp and the experience of sisters dancing female energy dance in the darkroom. At that time, I finally found out that I was really natural and full of feminine charm. I hugged her heartily and never wanted to be apart again.
I think female energy is a kind of natural relaxation and fun, which can nourish many people and is also an attractive state.
The study of emotional camp has made me more humane, more tolerant and full of love, and my heart is as soft and powerful as water, which is a kind of female energy.
A teacher told us to listen more, be grateful and smile more when dating. I think this is also a natural expression of women's energy.
When we face the world with the truest face, you will find that dating has become a very fun, relaxing and enjoyable thing.
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Accelerate the realization of results with operational thinking
If you are ready, but haven't met him yet, you may wish to use operational thinking as an aid: expand the flow pool+build a personal brand.
To expand the flow pool in operation is to reach as many accurate customers as possible. Common ways include leveraging influential key figures, leveraging open traffic platforms, leveraging other communities with similar tonality, and so on.
Building a personal brand is like the universe sending you a signal light, so that your potential customers can see your existence as much as possible and will take the initiative to link you.
This is also very suitable for the strategy of leaving the single channel. At that time, I had a brainstorming on the single channel and listed all the existing resources, including my key friends, local matchmakers, several dating platforms, several learning communities, potential circles and so on. As long as you can list all the places where potential objects may appear, you can build a take-off network.
At the same time, we should try our best to build a loud personal brand in these potential channels, which can be reflected in, for example, on the dating platform, we need to fully show what kind of person we are, our values and so on. And expose it as much as possible, so as to attract the right people.
I remember that I spent an afternoon answering questions from dozens of dating websites in order to build a resounding "personal brand".
My boyfriend and I met on this dating website. He later told me that after seeing my introduction, he felt that my values matched him very well. He was surprised at the time and quickly asked me out.
The above is my method and process from an emotional white to a beautiful love.
Although teacher Yi Jia's emotional camp did not specifically talk about how to get rid of the order, as long as I master several core methods and means of emotional operation taught by teacher Yi Jia, the process of getting rid of the order that I think is terrible and full of traps will really become calm, relaxed and beautiful. I think the beautiful love that only exists in fairy tales has entered my real life!