It takes a long time for two people to get along from strangers to acquaintances, from friends to lovers, and you need to manage with your heart. If you want to really go into each other's hearts, you must make them trust you enough.
The premise for the other party to trust you is that you can keep your word and do your best to do what you promised.
The first impression is very important, and the process of getting along determines the other person's impression of you. During the period when two people just met, there must be enough vigilance between them. If you want to gain each other's trust, you must strive to do everything you promise in life, make them believe in you and leave a good impression on them.
This belief is shallow, but it is a good start. If you leave a bad impression on the other party from the beginning, you may need to make a lot of efforts to save this impression in the process of getting along later.
From friends to lovers, you need to learn to integrate into each other's lives and let them rely on you. Dependence is actually a step-by-step process, which requires slow trust. The basis for the other party to build your foundation is that you should keep your word.
Try to integrate into each other's life and take the initiative to help each other do something to reduce the burden and pressure in each other's life. You must fulfill your promise to each other and work hard to fulfill it. Even if you can't finish it because of unexpected circumstances, you should give the other party an explanation.
As time goes on, your two lives gradually merge. When the other person is used to your existence and dependence on you, it is a natural process from friend to lover.
Trust is actually a very delicate thing, which is difficult to cultivate, but easy to destroy. In the process of getting along with two people, we must not destroy the trust between people. Breaking your promise may ruin all your good feelings in the other person's impression.
Take the initiative to help each other do something. When you can help her do everything well, she will naturally fall into your arms.