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Why can't you find a heart-to-heart friend after you go to college?
In high school, teachers often said that universities are a small society, but I didn't understand the meaning of this sentence at that time. The teacher just asked us to listen. I think it's no big deal. But I didn't know until I entered the university. It was better in junior high school and high school. This feeling is really only known after experience. It's no use relying on others to say. Especially in front of friendship.

Because you have entered the society, all the factors are mixed with interests. Everything is not that simple, it needs brain thinking. Everything is for your own benefit, and no one cares for you anymore. And they can't make sincere friends. They can sell everything for a profit. And if you have anything intimate, you can't just tell others, because at this age, you shouldn't say anything easily, because in all directions, you have to knock out your teeth and swallow everything in your stomach. Smile even if you are angry, don't show it. This requires action.

I regret that I did not cherish my good friend's time at noon. I was too young and immature at that time, and now I regret it very much. At that time, because of a small matter, I haggled with my good friends. If I do something unhappy, I will speak ill of her in front of others and exclude him from my heart. But I don't know what happened. At that time, other students were envious of our friendship, but they didn't know how to cherish it at that time and pretended our feelings. I'm really confused now that I think about it.

In college, I didn't meet any intimate friends, because everyone had a knife hidden behind them. When it is necessary for his own interests, he will show his true side and stab you in the back. I hate people who cater to others for the benefit, people who are against me, and people who are too thoughtful and playful. I feel too tired to live like this every day. I don't want to work hard because of my classmates. Every day affects the mood and wastes time. If the relationship between classmates is not handled well, then nothing can be done well on this day.

I don't know about the others. Anyway, I value friendship, that is, feelings, and I am narrow-minded. If you are a little unhappy, you don't talk and don't want to eat. You are in a bad mood and the whole person becomes very depressed. This has not really entered the society, just living in the university. When you really enter society, you will know how complicated it is and how deep the water is. As the saying goes, people are so complicated because they have desires. A great man once said that the world was originally simple, and it is because people have desires that it becomes more and more complicated.

So, I want to say, whatever you do, you have to have a long snack.