But this approach is very risky. Once the other person knows that you are playing tricks behind his back, test him. In case he says you don't trust him, you can't ask him directly if you have anything to say. You must know what kind of person he is from others by means. Then I came up with the idea that since even the most basic trust can't be reached, there is no relationship. You are not worth the loss.
Since two people are together, mutual trust means respect for both sides.