If you are a man, it will be difficult. First of all, you have to have a decent image. You don’t have to wear very fashionable clothes, but you have to be clean, comfortable, decent, and don’t wear big logos. Don’t pursue weird girls. They are very disgusted with the aesthetics of many straight men (here is the answer) Without going into details, you can check the beauty standards of straight men.) The image is not good, so don’t think that girls are just children. This is a big mistake that boys often make when they are students. Said: "xxx is just like a child who hasn't grown up yet." In fact, the average maturity level and emotional intelligence of girls are generally better than boys. You need to watch more movies and read more novels to accumulate some talking points. Don't open your mouth and just say: "I talked to you a few days ago. "Who's fighting?" or "I bought a new game." Girls don't pay attention to these things or even hate them. Don't ask me how I know.

Oh, and don't keep watching those superheroes and Transformers movies. Literary and artistic films that focus on narratives, romance films, etc. Don’t always watch romance action films. I recommend the Love in Trilogy. Watch it carefully and you will gain a lot in the relationship. Check out the imdb rankings and watch the high scores on Douban. Also pay attention to the points. Together with learning some philosophy and history, in short, don’t act like a male chauvinist, open your mouth and speak with some depth

Thirdly, create some scarcity for yourself. This is a theoretical statement. If you change it to vernacular, don’t be a licking dog. Show your independent personality and don't make the same statement to the person you're with

Finally, you should take the initiative but also keep your eyes open and be careful bitch, don't be sold and help others pay money

I hope this helps you