I have a deep affection for him.
Lily sent me a private letter from Weibo and told me her story.
She and her current boyfriend started dating the year before last, and it has been a year and a half now.
Are all outsiders in big cities.
When they first met, she was fascinated by each other. The boyfriend is handsome and eloquent, and he is generous when he goes shopping with her.
In the first three months, her boyfriend was very attentive to her, and all kinds of buy buy coaxed her.
Immersed in happiness, she moved in together at the request of the other party. What is cohabitation? You must know.
However, last spring, my boyfriend began to be "lazy", and those things he promised before seemed never to be said.
Lily is very considerate. She thinks that her boyfriend must be very busy at work and should not ask too many questions.
Lily was completely disappointed until the Spring Festival this year.
The Spring Festival is indeed a crucial time to test the feelings of two people.
Before the holiday, Lily told her boyfriend that we had been together for so long, so let's meet my parents for the New Year. They really want to see you.
If you don't want to spend the New Year in my home, I can go to your home. I want to see your parents.
Boyfriend found various excuses to refuse, neither wanting to go to her home nor taking Lily back to her own.
Finally, we all went home, and my boyfriend didn't even prepare a Spring Festival gift for Lily's family.
During the Spring Festival, my boyfriend told Lily in a joking tone that many people at home introduced him to blind date. Do you want to see it? It was later confirmed that I really went to see it. )
After the holiday, the two still live together, but talk less and less. After work, they play mobile phones.
Lily asked me, do you want to be together?
I said, I am a man, please forgive me for not feeling the same.
This is your business, how dare I comment? It's up to you.
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What grandpa said
Grandpa once talked to me about getting married. I think what he said is inspiring to everyone.
An old man in his seventies summed up six principles of a happy marriage:
Grandpa, everything you said is right.
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This is a good man.
I remember once in class, the teacher on the stage told girls how to choose a spouse, which is still fresh in my memory.
This is what he said. The female classmate here, if she wants to find a partner, she must first be a four-good young man.
What the teacher said is really reasonable.
Concluding remarks
Girl, marriage and love can only be decided by yourself.
However, don't be silly to be the girlfriend who just sleeps with you.