At the end of the Qing Dynasty, there were many famous ministers of the Qing Dynasty, just like Zeng Guofan and others. Zeng Guofan was a famous politician at the end of Qing Dynasty, as well as a writer and calligrapher. Zeng Guofan highly praised literary knowledge. Zeng Guofan also promoted the first batch of students studying abroad in the history of Qing Dynasty and was the first person to translate western literature into Chinese. Zeng Guofan himself wrote many literary works, which were handed down from generation to generation.

among Zeng Guofan's works, Letter from Home is his most famous achievement. In Letter from Home, Zeng Guofan strictly demands the behavior of his children, brothers and family, which is one of the important reasons why Zeng Guofan's family can succeed. In addition to Letters from Home, Zeng Guofan also wrote many works, such as Bing Jian and Diary. Zeng Guofan's wisdom tells us that a smart person generally does not make friends with these two kinds of people, but generally avoids them if he can. If you don't know that people are sinister, then remember these two sentences of Zeng Guofan, which can also teach you to see through everyone!

first, the villain only looks forward to people's kindness, and he does not feel too grateful; A gentleman who is ungrateful will never forget it.

A villain likes to be gracious, but after being gracious, he is not grateful, but turns right from wrong. A gentleman, on the other hand, is not used to receiving favors from others. Once someone helps him, he will always remember it. What Zeng Guofan said is to tell us how to distinguish a villain from a gentleman. When we meet a gentleman, even if communication is as light as water, you will benefit greatly. And if we meet a villain, we must avoid it.

Second, it's almost "stupid" to fall down or jump up.

This sentence that Zeng Guofan got in The Ice Guide has a lot to do with making friends. If a person is too quiet and has no * * *, this state is almost "stupid". It's like talking to a piece of wood, and he won't give you any response, even the most basic communication can't be done. How can you make friends? Smart people, when they meet such people, will not waste time on them. It is the best policy to avoid them. For those who can't see through people's hearts, this sentence can help you to make friends in the future without wasting time.

3 lectures on learning to be a man with Zeng Guofan

Author: Yixuan Literature Society-freelance writer; Historical literature researcher!

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When we make friends, we sometimes enter a blind spot, which will make us ignore some details when we look at people. These two sentences of Zeng Guofan just remind us that when we make friends, we can be more careful and not do useless work. Do you have anything to say about this?