It won't be embarrassing to chat with girls. Many boys become particularly nervous when chatting with girls because of their inexperience. They don't know what to talk about, so the whole atmosphere will become awkward. So why not chat with girls?

Why can't you chat with girls? 1 First, be a girl's friend.

Since you want to be a girl's friend, you need to win each other's goodwill in this process, but you can't expose too much sense of demand (too strong sense of demand for girls will easily bring social pressure to girls), so the chat skills here can be used to praise details and push and pull.

1, details like girls

The so-called praise for details is to be specific, unusual, rare and hidden when praising girls. Specifically, it is to praise a girl in detail to distinguish it from other people who praise her beauty, while rarity is appropriate. Too much praise will only turn into flattery, and more praise will give girls value points (cuteness, kindness, independence and so on. ) except for appearance. For example:

Boy: You are special today.

Girl: Really?

Boy: It's refreshing to see the style and color of clothes worn by friends (great details)

Girl: Thank you.

Boy: Especially your hairstyle, it makes you more gentle and lovely (great details).

2. Push and pull to tease girls

Push-pull teasing girls is to enliven the atmosphere and create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere, so when "pushing" girls, don't feel impolite because you are afraid of each other's anger. It should also be noted that "pushing" girls does not represent each other's shortcomings. Here, you can push and pull girls like this, for example:

Boy: You look tired today.

Girl: Really?

Boy: The photos of your circle of friends make people feel that you are tired, and you are not as good-looking as yourself.

Girl: Not very photogenic.

Boy: Although it looks silly (push)

Girl: Hum.

Boy: But I think I am an understanding and sociable person.

Second, establish mutual attraction with girls.

The so-called mutual attraction is the process of making girls feel that you understand her and have a good impression on each other. The chat skills here can be used to deepen topics and rationalize defects.

1, in-depth topic * * *

Deep topic is a topic that can bring girls closer in chat. There are roughly love views, emotional history, world outlook, values and ups and downs in the process of growing up. The key point is to guide girls to tell their own stories. If you want to have a relationship with girls, you need our guidance, such as "Me too" and "I think" ... What about you? ""The first time I met you ... all the girls I remember ... "

Inject your own thoughts and ideas into the process of chatting and give girls some leadership.

2. Rationalization of defects

In the process of chatting with girls, we will gradually get to know each other and find out some advantages and disadvantages of each other. At this time, you can rationalize some shortcomings of girls and let them know that you understand her, such as:

It's not that you have a bad temper, but that these people have no idea what you really want.

It's not that you are willful, it's that they are impatient.

Third, accept the test of girls.

Girls are always insecure, so they will test the sincerity of boys in various ways to judge whether it is worth interacting with. Generally, girls' tests show that girls really care about your future and care about you, so you must handle them properly.

For example, dating a girl who is late may be a test. If you ask a girl why she is late, it will be easy to ignore her emotions and blame her for the mistakes, which will only make her feel that your emotional intelligence is low.

The correct way is, if a girl is late just because she is wearing makeup, she will make fun of it to ease the embarrassing atmosphere of the girl being late, then praise the girl for being beautiful and change the subject at the same time.

Why can't I talk to girls? 2 What can I talk to girls about?

Women chasing men's interlayer yarn, men chasing women's interlayer mountain. Why is it so difficult for boys to chase girls? Many boys will feel unfair. In fact, I want to say that there is nothing unfair, but girls are more sensitive, more sensitive to feelings and more concerned about details. Therefore, they often get to know a boy carefully, think that she meets their own mate selection criteria, and then shape themselves into each other's mate selection criteria, so that they can be hit at once.

And boys are careless, I believe everyone knows, and they don't know what girls think, so they want to chase others? Then, let's see what girls like to talk about. What can I do to chat with girls and make them like you? (Take your time and focus on the back)

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What is abnormal logical chat? In daily life, I wonder if you have noticed that some witty and unexpected answers always bring excellent atmosphere effect. This is the principle of abnormal logical chat. If you achieve this effect in chatting, your answer will make the other person unexpected, thus making her interested in you.

Practical application of abnormal logic chat method

First of all, the premise of using this way of chatting is that you have enough sense of humor, otherwise, where will there be so many witticisms? With the premise, the next step is practical application. Give a chestnut: when chatting with girls, girls may say, "There are many beautiful women in your circle of friends."

The most common and normal answer is "not bad" and "no". After saying this, the scene was once embarrassing. Therefore, in the face of this "topic", you can put it bluntly: "Are you indirectly boasting that you are a beautiful woman, so ugly?" Or worse: "Not bad, not too much, you are 100, haha".

The essence of fishing chat method is: draw a conclusion first, then reason. Everyone is curious, especially interested in their own things. So in chatting, you can draw a conclusion to arouse girls' curiosity, and then guide girls to ask you questions, continue the topic and express themselves.

Give a chestnut:

M: I think you are like a cat.

W: Why do you say that?

M: Haha, I said you must never hit me (to keep suspense and increase curiosity).

Woman: I won't hit you. If you don't tell me, I will.

M: Because you look good on the surface, but you have a firm idea in your heart. You will pursue what you like, and you will not care about what you can easily get (release your curiosity).

Woman: Haha, it's amazing. Are you my bug?

M: No, no, this is the sixth sense (humor) accumulated by my 30 years of fortune-telling experience.

Woman: Hehe, suddenly I'm so scared. You won't bully me in the future, will you

Maybe many brothers will have some questions when they see this. They don't know how to arouse the curiosity of girls and can't find the core point of chatting! Never mind, the teacher has considered this problem for you, so on the other side, I have prepared n chat topics for my brothers and sisters. Talk until you die if you can't talk. You can directly add a tutor, discuss with the tutor one-on-one, and tell the tutor about your emotional confusion. The tutor will make specific analysis and guidance according to your situation!

You don't need to know astronomy and geography to chat with girls. It's only important for you to master that no matter how small things are, you should have feelings when chatting. Women pay more attention to emotional communication and don't care much about chat content. Because in the eyes of girls, even if they are not interested in this matter, they will still be happy to continue chatting with you. After we establish a suitable chat atmosphere, we should seek the extension of the topic, lead the girl's emotions to your three views, your personal charm or personal stories, make her interested in you, and make her want to have more intersections with you in the future.

Give a chestnut:

(1) If you meet a girl for the first time, she may ask you some questions:

"I feel that you are quite small. How old are you this year? " Most boys will answer: "Not young, 22 this year." Without emotional interaction, the result is to end the topic directly. So be sure to catch the girl's interest in you, and then make some extension. You can say this:

Man: Guess how old I am? (Grasp the interaction of girls' emotional points and guide girls to invest)

W: I don't know. Are you twenty years old? (Girls begin to export value, enter your framework and be guided by you)

M: Haha, it will be my 18 birthday in a few days. What gift are you going to give me?

It doesn't matter whether girls give gifts or not, and create a relaxed atmosphere through chatting. What is important is a new topic-gifts, which is derived from the topic of age. So chatting can continue and create more intersections.

If a girl is not interested in you, but only has some simple communication with you, or even ignores and suppresses you in the chat, then we can try to communicate with her by emotional chat:

For example, if you are a little thin, girls may say "you are so thin" (girls' emotions are concentrated on you, and they are somewhat disgusted with you, and even begin to block your reproductive value). Faced with this problem, many boys will say "Oh, no, I'm not thin". In order to prove themselves, these boys easily fall into the trap of refuting the topic, and then they can't stop. So, in the face of the topic that girls seem unfriendly, you can answer it like this:

Man: The girl has a good eye. You find it too deep. Now that you have found out, I can take you around the world when I have the opportunity.

How can you take me around the world?

M: It's fine when the wind is strong. I am so thin, the wind can blow me far away, but I can't control the direction of my travel.

In the face of such a topic, don't try to explain it. Follow the girl's mood and provide a new topic-traveling around the world. Travel is the best topic for girls. When girls are attracted to your topic, you have successfully expanded the topic. At the same time, girls will also have mood swings because of you. For closed questions, the other party can only use "yes", "no" or one word to answer the question, and checking the household registration is a continuous closed question.

Give a chestnut:

Closed question

When you ask the girl if she has eaten, and the girl says yes, then the topic is over. You asked the girl if she liked cats, and she said it was ok, so the topic ended.

An easy question to discuss.

"What are your hobbies?" By asking each other questions in this way, they have more answers to choose from. She can travel, dance and play games. "What do you like to do after work?" There will be more room for the other person's answer. She can read books, watch movies and go shopping. "What animals do you like?" The other party can answer cats and dogs and so on. With open-ended questions, the topic opens immediately, which is actually very simple. Try to avoid the problem of closure.

If you want to be able to chat, improve your value and love level, so as to attract girls, then you can add a tutor, consult with the tutor one-on-one, and tell the tutor about your feelings, and the tutor will answer all the questions according to your situation with girls!

As the name implies, it is to constantly open new topics, expand and extend a topic, so as to achieve endless topics. The key point of this method is that you should have rich imagination and divergent thinking ability, master the information provided by girls' topics and use it to start the topic. So don't worry about chatting. There's no topic. What is divergent thinking?

Give a chestnut: Have we been talking about eating? Speaking of eating, what can you think of?

When it comes to eating, I think of Sichuan pork cooked by my mother.

Speaking of eating, do you often eat snacks?

I dare not eat or drink, and now I am losing weight.

I'm not hungry, but as soon as you say eat, I am.

Hey, can you cook? If I can, I will worship you as a teacher and let you teach me how to cook.

Give another chestnut:

Fairy stalks are very popular now, so in chatting, the word fairy is often involved, so divergent thinking:

Now that fairies have descended to earth, have you secretly followed them down to earth?

(2) Actually, my identity is the Jade Emperor, which is specially used to punish you, a little fairy.

All fairies drink dew, but unlike you, you drink toilet water.

In the process of falling, we separated, and now fate makes us meet again.

I am in the sky, too. There are not only fairies in the sky, but also my fairy boy.

These are divergent thinking, thinking about all the problems around a keyword in a reverse, positive, horizontal or combined way. Simply put, it is the thinking that spreads in all directions from a little bit. A topic can extend to many topics. When you learn to chat with this thinking, you will find that there are so many endless topics, so make good use of the warming relationship between each topic and girls.

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Talk to girls about what? Everyone should have the awareness of learning and changing. Ask if you don't understand, and you will never learn if you don't ask. If you don't learn, there will never be a problem, and there is no way! Love can be learned, and so can chatting. If you want to find a girlfriend or get your girlfriend back quickly, tell your tutor about your emotional problems, and the tutor will help you analyze and guide you in detail! In addition, if you have any chat questions or emotional confusion, you can directly click the head of the tutor and chat with me privately! Moreover, there are many chat topics and friends-making skills in the circle of tutors' friends, so you can add tutors to learn!

How can I chat with girls without embarrassment? 3 What should I talk to girls about?

First, food, cooking

Someone said, "To grasp a person's heart, you must first grasp a person's stomach." I often hear girls say that they want to lose weight, lose weight and lose weight, but in fact, they don't care so much when they see delicious food, and they forget all about losing weight. It's business to eat all the delicious food in their bellies.

Then we can find the same topic by grasping women's psychology and chatting with girls we like. "Have you ever eaten XXX stir-fried meat? The taste of that meat is really unforgettable. " "The breakfast at Xijiekou is super delicious. I wonder if you have been to their store? " "XXX's spicy chicken is simply a must." These are all good ways to open the topic.

Moreover, many girls like warm men. One of the most striking features of a warm man is that he can cook. If you can show your cooking skills to girls in a circle of friends or chat, most girls are defenseless. Being able to cook can not only increase the conversation resources with girls, but also show their quality of life, which is a very plus topic in chat.

If you really can't cook, or are not interested in cooking, you can also learn more about food in your spare time, so that you won't be completely behind when chatting with your sister about food.

Second, photography and retouching.

All women in the world love beauty. Whether you are making up, taking photos or even retouching, you should make yourself beautiful to satisfy your vanity in beauty. You don't have to talk about a girl's cosmetics, Kan Kan, which may also make her think that you are a bitch and you are not her type.

But it will be different if you can take pictures and retouch the picture. In the circle of friends, you will often show some photos you have taken, and the beautiful photos you have repaired will be placed in the circle of friends, which shows that your hobby is photography. As long as any scene passes through your handwriting, the photos you take will completely rise to a higher level, and your value will increase by ten points invisibly.

When dating and chatting with girls, you can talk about photography and retouching with girls, take photos or retouching for girls, or be a photography teacher for girls. By talking about photography, you can establish a chat topic for two people.

Third, travel, knowledge and experience

If you travel frequently, you will see and hear a lot, and chat with girls will be rich, so that the topic will not be exhausted.

You can talk to girls about what you have seen and heard during your trip, about interesting places you have been to, which city's special snacks are delicious, which city you like best, and so on. You can also ask girls questions. You can ask girls, "Which city do you want to go to most? What fascinates you?" "Which city have you been to that impressed you? Why are you impressed? "

What you have seen and heard during these trips can not only let girls see your rich life experience, but also establish a chat topic with girls. When a girl has a good impression on you, you can vaguely send an invitation, "When we have a long vacation, we can go to XXX together."

In short, these grounded and life-oriented topics will always be the most concerned topics for girls, and they can also be linked with girls and increase their goodwill towards you. Remember, when talking about these topics, don't talk alone in Kan Kan, don't take care of girls' feelings, and connect the topics with girls and each other. These topics can make girls like you.

If you have a conflict with your partner and it is irreparable, don't lose heart. You might as well add an assistant to your emotional teacher and ask her to help you arrange a counselor who is good at solving emotional problems. First analyze the emotional problems and give you professional advice. /Heart number: