Chatting with others is a technical job. How do we learn to chat with others?
Methods/Steps
Learn to listen, chat with others, and learn to respect each other. Don't keep talking to yourself. Don't keep asking the other person. When planning what others are going to say, you can use your eyes to signal, or ask, and then let the other person continue talking.
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When talking to others, look at them. To show respect. Don't be distracted. If the other person doesn't see much interest in you, he probably won't want to talk to you anymore.
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It is best to start the chat with everyone’s common interests, or talk about the recent weather, news, entertainment gossip, etc., but the most It's best not to involve privacy. Don’t tell the other person your personal matters, and don’t try to inquire about the other person’s private matters.
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When chatting with unfamiliar people, it is best not to express all your dissatisfaction and complaints about life and work. Remember, it’s easy to communicate but profound. If you accidentally learn other people's secrets, you should also be a person who does not spread rumors.
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Method/Step 2
Learn to praise each other. But it must be sincere. Don't be too flashy. For example, if a girl is beautiful, you can praise her. Not beautiful, but cute. You can be kind without being cute. etc.
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If you are a shy person, you can try to chat with strangers more often, for example, ask for directions when you go out. Try talking to someone else. Everything is difficult at the beginning, but practice makes perfect.
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Watch more news and read more books. Watch more talk shows. Increase your knowledge and enrich your horizons. Allow yourself to have more topics to talk to others about.
But don’t deliberately fit into a certain circle.
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Notes
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