Here are some specific methods: how to listen? Look at the speaker; Approaching slowly, pretending to be unconsciously attracted by it; Don't interrupt the topic; Ask timely questions (higher flattery); How do you agree? Actively, seize the opportunity in time, nod and look the other person in the eye and say "I agree with you" or "I agree".

On the other hand, don't tell them if you don't agree; Avoid arguments; The best way to deal with conflicts is to refuse to fight with them. Reason: the weakness of human nature, people like those who agree with them, people don't like those who oppose them, and people don't like being opposed. How to influence others? To understand the needs, simply explain to them that as long as they do what I ask, they can get what they want.