1. The biggest disadvantage of long-distance relationships is that you can’t be together often. The biggest advantage is: freedom! Everyone on earth knows that modern freedom includes both sexual freedom and love freedom. For women, they have to accept the blow of "the red flag does not fall at home and the colorful flags flutter outside." For men, it is just a green hat.
2. Long-distance love is like the love of college students. How many of the love games in college have survived the hormonal impulses of adolescence? You said that we didn’t understand love when we first fell in love. You have been working for many years, and other classmates are already married and have children. You are still holding your hands and pretending to be a virgin, and you keep saying you don’t understand love, and you are still playing with your first love. , you were kicked in the head by a donkey, weren't you?
3. Long-distance love is like poisonous perfume, like drugs, which are irritating. It smells good but can sting your hands when touched. The final outcome is often a tragic breakup. If you don't love deeply, you will shed tears. If you love too deeply, you will collapse. So don't touch it. If you do, you will regret it.
4. Geographical isolation results in all-round isolation of body, reproduction, and thoughts. There are many places and many things that are beyond our reach. The other person has been bullied, scolded, beaten, and offended, and I still don’t know whether I should tell you: If I tell you, it will be in vain, and one person’s depression will become two people’s depression; if I don’t tell you, what will you do?
5. Loneliness is the most unbearable thing in the world, and long-distance love takes this loneliness to the extreme. Nima already has a lover, but every day he washes his clothes by himself, cooks and eats by himself, watches TV by himself, sleeps by himself, and takes care of all the problems by himself. When he wakes up in the morning, he faces all the problems by himself. It's just loneliness. The two of them caressed themselves while watching the screen. When they wanted to say something, they shed tears first: Who in this age can still play Plato with you for such a long time? Is it possible?
6. Long-distance lovers can only chat on the phone and text messages every day. The phone and the railway operator are snickering. Life will always be on the road from now on and cannot stop. Will the next high-speed train rear-end accident be included in the blacklist? It's your turn?
7. People in long-distance relationships think they are different, and because they are really different, they inevitably become withdrawn, extreme, and unsociable. They only think about the one far away all day long, and have no intention of sleeping all night long. , I feel lonely and have no time to work. If you don’t become perverted in repression, you will become bad in repression.
8. Since long-distance love is love, the highest state of love is to have each other. However, long-distance love kills or delays this basic need. In order to get something that local love can easily get, you have to go through all kinds of things. All kinds of hard work, all kinds of tiredness, the result of being unsatisfied is: either you get used to it or you get tired of it. Then if you get used to it, you will become impotent, and if you get tired of it, you will cheat. These are not very auspicious things, haha.
9. Long-distance relationships are fine if they are just in love without getting married. The biggest consequence is that it will have a greater impact on life after marriage.
Not to mention not being able to live a normal life as a couple, there is nothing convenient about living in the future, making friends, buying a house, etc. Just say that your colleagues at work are getting married and attending a banquet, and everyone else is in pairs, but you are alone and drinking alone, making you look miserable? Also, after you give birth to a child, you either cannot see your father or mother for a long time. Those who know know that you are holding on for love, but those who don’t know think that you can only enjoy one-time benefits during the Spring Festival every year. Why are Chinese-style migrant workers so embarrassed?
10. In fact, in the final analysis, we have no doubt that long-distance lovers are crazy about love and can bear the pain of lovesickness. But the most important thing is that long-distance love is like a cursed fate. There is no legal restriction, it only relies on the trust and self-discipline of both parties. Based on the fact that people in today's country generally lack integrity, when you go through all the hardships to welcome the rainbow and obtain the crystallization of a long-distance relationship, your life from now on will be changed all day long. Not only do you have to face all kinds of rumors, but you also struggle with whether to take a DNA paternity test. Are you really ready?
I hope you can adopt it, thank you~