First, to be a person with both achievements and comprehensive ability, achievements have a great influence on our lives, but what has a greater influence is our personality. Achievement is a manifestation of ability, but it is only a manifestation. Many times, it is grades and halo worship that interfere with our judgment, including universities and society. Many people show their professional titles first and then promote them, and the effect is surprisingly good. "28 principle" (that is, in excellent universities, only 20% of excellent people are ordinary), while improving their grades, we should also pay attention to improving their comprehensive ability. The college entrance examination is just a new starting point for everyone. Standing at this new starting point, forget the glory and honor of the past, and hope that everyone will become stronger with the increase of knowledge and insight. Second, you should be a person who has a clear plan and can grasp the key points. What is the focus of the university every year and what do you want to do in the future? All these should be planned as early as possible, because when you make a plan, you can stick to it. For example, many people are keen on textual research when they are in college. In fact, most certificates are very watery, and a dozen certificates add up to less than the weight of a certificate with a large amount of gold in the heart of HR (human resources consultant). I suggest you divide the certificates into three categories. One is compulsory, such as the teacher qualification certificate of normal students, who are interested in the education industry. The second category is certificates with relatively large gold content, certificates of CET-4 and CET-6, etc. The other is a dispensable certificate, depending on whether you have enough time and are interested.
Third, be a person with reason and judgment.
Always communicate with others (especially those who are better than themselves), and at the same time listen to those who are not as good as themselves. You can't believe everything others say. As the saying goes, "it is better to believe in books than to have no books." Don't panic when you meet something important. There are only two kinds of problems: one is that you can solve it, so don't worry; What can I do if I can't solve it? Panic is useless.
Fourth, we should treat people who deserve our sincere treatment.
Maybe before you went to college, you heard that universities should develop interpersonal relationships, which is called socialization. So first, let's understand the connection. About contacts, it is not as simple as you think, and it is not too complicated. But make it clear that it is not that you know this person or have had several exchanges with him, but that he is willing to help you when you are in trouble, so he is your contact. We should keep a certain distance from those people who will take it for granted no matter how nice you are to him. For those who are always helpful and sincere, it is worth making friends.
5. Be a tireless worker.
Freshman and sophomore: be familiar with your major; Junior and senior: clearly plan your own direction and decide whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination or get a job. For those who want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, don't paralyze yourself by being proud of the postgraduate entrance examination, feel that you are different from those who have fallen, and then fall in another way without making necessary efforts for the postgraduate entrance examination. Because there is a saying that "reminding yourself not to waste time every day is a waste of time in itself". So please be sure to know what you want and work hard to match your goals. In short, be a tireless worker.