After breakfast, my daughter said with excitement that she would have a good day with her friends. When I got home from work, I found her sitting on the sofa listlessly watching TV. ? Baby, why are you back so early? ? I asked softly. The daughter showed an angry expression. In the afternoon, they decided to play hide and seek. I didn't like playing, so I quarreled with them and they stopped playing with me. ?

It turns out that there are differences of opinion between children, which often happens in adults' social activities. I asked her:? You can discuss it with them! ? My daughter's answer made me see her? Self? She said:? No, I want them to listen to me! ?

the birth of language shows? Socializing? The importance of, we will encounter all kinds of social interaction every day. Family, work, online world, conversation is everywhere. On the one hand, adults can benefit a lot from participating in social activities because of their work needs; On the other hand, it can relieve physical and mental fatigue and make children feel happy < P > Children are different. They talk and play with their friends just for the sake of being happy. Especially when the summer vacation comes, there is more time for them? A day's swim? . However, there is a kind of children who can't integrate into the group all the time, often have disputes because of disagreement, and are gradually alienated and rejected by friends.

the reason why children can't be sociable.

why can't some children get along with their friends in peace? There are two main reasons. The objective reason is that they can't control their emotions and will habitually lose their temper. When children play together, it is inevitable that there will be disagreement or physical collision. Something that can't control negative emotions? Grumpy boy? , will lose his temper, accusing each other of not.

Sudden verbal abuse and quarrels will turn into physical conflicts. It's easy for children to make friends. If you like to lose your temper, we won't play with you. Who do they think is a grumpy friend? Bad boy? , it will gradually be excluded.

The subjective reason is that they are too egoistic and want to be the protagonist of social interaction. When playing with friends, there is always one? Leader? , decide the topic of conversation and the matters of play. But in the process, there is no distinction between leading role and supporting role. However, children who are too self-centered, if they feel that they have been? Ignore? You will improve your sense of existence through words and actions.

do they want to be social? Leader? Everyone must listen to his instructions. But if you fight alone, you will naturally not be convinced by your friends. They can't integrate into the group, so they will naturally be alienated and rejected by their friends and become? Lone Ranger? .

how to guide children to be socially friendly? Parents might as well ask them two questions.

first question? Why do you like to play with your friends? ?

Beethoven once said that the foundation of friendship lies in the greatest similarity between two people's hearts and souls.

In fact, the original intention of playing with friends is to create happiness and kill boring leisure time. This question can make children think? Why should I have an argument with my friends? ? After some memories and thinking, they will feel that quarreling with their friends over trivial matters is completely a fuss.

At this time, parents teach them to control their emotions, and they can also hide their negative emotions when playing with their friends. Talking and playing with friends with a smile and tolerance will naturally become more popular.

second question? If someone forces you to do something, will you? ?

when my daughter plays with her friends, does she wish she was? Leader? , able to command friends to do things. Such children like to show personality and leadership, and it is difficult to integrate into group activities. When you ask this sentence, you can let them think about the problem from the other side's point of view and feel the quilt? Control? When the mood.

every child doesn't want to be over-disciplined, let alone his peers. Through empathy, they realized the boredom of not being able to play according to their own wishes. When you get along with friends in the future, you won't be? Leader? , but with? Democratic voting? The way of collective voting.

Message: If the child is? Life ship? Captain, socializing is sailing and sailors. Make more friends and learn all kinds of skills and experiences. From your parents in the future? Harbor? Sometimes, you won't feel lonely in life. With friends around, you can feel the beauty of life. Does your baby like making friends? What kind of social roles will they play?