Secondly, you should be able to listen. Learn to listen, others will be more willing to associate with you, which shows that you have a very important position in his mind and he has a place to talk.
Again, you should be able to understand it yourself. Know how to read minds and say what others like to hear!
Finally, I have to think for myself. Think about everyone's advantages and disadvantages, suit the remedy to the case, and talk about topics that others are interested in. As soon as the natural topic is opened, more people will associate it.
The most important thing in good communication is frankness, not narrowness, sincerity, tolerance, modesty and prudence, tolerance and accommodation, not being competitive, not being greedy, not caring about gains and losses with others and so on. It is difficult to be a good person, but it is not difficult to do anything well.
We should treat everything with a normal heart, and there is a saying that contentment is always happy.
When you meet someone you can trust, get along well with (her/him).
Be sure to thank (her/him) when you meet a noble person.
When you meet someone who doesn't trust you, you should review yourself and try to correct the reason why (she/he) doesn't trust yourself, because only in this way can (she/he) get to know you again, trust you and become your friend.
Interpersonal skills:
(1) Remember other people's surnames or first names, greet people actively, and address them appropriately, so that others feel polite, valued and approachable.
(2) Generosity and frankness make others feel relaxed and comfortable, and stimulate communication motivation.
(3) Cultivate a cheerful and lively personality and make the other person feel happy with you.
(4) cultivate humorous words and deeds, humor without losing discretion, humor without frivolity, and give people beautiful enjoyment. Treat people with humility, kindness and respect, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
(5) Be calm and don't complain. This can make you happy and self-disciplined, and also make others happy.
(6) Pay attention to the charm of language: comfort the injured and encourage those who fail. Praise those who have really achieved, and help those who have difficulties.
(7) People who are decisive, assertive, energetic and confident are easy to inspire others' communication motivation, win their trust, and produce the charm that people are willing to communicate.
When you meet someone you used to hate, you should greet him/her with a smile. Because (she/he) makes you stronger.
You should do what you promised others, don't promise what you can't do, be honest. Only honest people will be recognized by everyone, and only by constantly striving for innovation will you have new gains.
Don't be pessimistic, change your destiny with your own mind and hands.
Treat others as you want them to treat you.
Treat others as you want them to treat you; If you do this, you will find that everyone regards you as a friend. You will get real happiness and real good friends.