1. I feel that many times it is the poor who are unable to associate with the rich. Knowing that you like nightclubs, the rich take you to disco. Tens of thousands of drinks were opened in one night. One day, the rich man's friend got into a fight with you after drinking too much. He insisted on playing a game with you, and the loser invited everyone to attend. Seeing him looking defeated and paying more than 100,000 for drinks and asking you to continue tomorrow night, you suddenly decided to start a healthy life of going to bed early and getting up early. You two lost contact after that.

Knowing that you like traveling, the rich man asks you to go out. A trip to Antarctica costs hundreds of thousands, but you think it’s too expensive; a trip to South America costs tens of thousands, but you also think it’s too expensive.

You might as well go to Lijiang. The rich man suddenly realized that you like the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. So a month after returning from Lijiang

I asked you to go to Xinjiang again, and said that after going to Xinjiang, I could stop by Tibet. You look at your savings and annual leave, and suddenly you feel that traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading thousands of books. You two lost contact after that.

Knowing that you like cars, the rich man asks you to rent a car and go to the track. The next time the track was thousands, and the next time it was thousands more. One time you almost hit the wall. When you came back, the rich man said that he hit it there last time and lost more than 200,000 yuan. You suddenly feel that the car is just a means of transportation and there is no need to drive so fast.

You two lost contact after that. ?

2. Knowing that your baby is three years old, the rich man asks you to raise the baby together. I introduced you to Lang Lang's apprentice who teaches piano, introduced a coach from the UK to teach horse riding, and asked you if you want to send your child to Italy to learn karting together. Suddenly you feel that happiness is the most important thing for children. The children are very happy to take the roller skating class for 2,000 yuan a year. You two lost contact after that.

Rich man: I want to make friends with poor people, and I also deliberately understand their interests and hobbies. But I don’t know why they stopped coming out after several appointments.

Did I do something wrong? I dare say that the monthly income of most people who have worked hard all their lives is not worth the pocket money of a group of fourteen or fifteen-year-old children.

The school does not allow you to bring mobile phones. They confiscate one and then buy another one. It is the latest smart phone. The most exaggerated thing is that they take away one phone a week.

That girl has one I bought four mobile phones a month, but it was still the same girl who had eight or nine mobile phones taken away in one semester. ?

3. I thought about my parents. It’s not easy to work hard, and I really can’t do it by squandering money. After all, my family background is different. In fact, that small circle is like this, I just accidentally broke in and took a peek. Because there is no different language.

If you keep a low profile, they will take it seriously, and they will crazily belittle your shoes, cars, houses, and clothes, making you feel ashamed. If you keep a low profile, they will be jealous of you and become weird. For example, when they ask you: Oh, why is your bag so beautiful? After taking a look at the brand logo, they add that it’s Aima Shiye. No wonder you, in order not to hurt their self-esteem, Or in order not to arouse jealousy, they can only explain that their Hermès is an A product and a high imitation.

They tutted and said: "No wonder, I just said, how can you afford a bag worth tens of thousands of yuan? Having said that,

If it is a high imitation , it’s better not to buy it.

4. So instead of getting along no matter what, it’s better to keep a distance and not interfere with each other. That’s the best outcome. You have your own struggles, I

With me lying down and less contact, there will be less jealousy and quarrels. Do I have to transfer all my property to your name to make you smile?

Then? Is this account worth it?

Of course, some people with bad backgrounds are still very generous and easy-going. Good family background does not necessarily mean good character. Some rich people like to pass

If he crazily ridicules and discriminates against the poor to satisfy his sense of superiority, it’s no wonder that others don’t want to make friends with him; the two situations I listed above

can only Just represents some groups.

5. Every time the seasons change from spring to summer to autumn to winter, I go shopping for clothes. I buy more than a dozen pieces each time. They are probably brands that are a little more expensive than fast-moving consumer goods brands. Sometimes they complain to me. If I don't buy clothes, I won't be able to spend all my money. We had a really good relationship for a while, and she often asked me to go shopping. But the gap is too big and it’s really uncomfortable. People can buy desserts and coffee casually, but the casual consumption in a day is in the triple digits. Under such circumstances, it is difficult for me to be gregarious. She was really carefree. She dragged me to sign up for English extracurricular training, saying that this would give me an excuse to go out and play, and she would skip classes and go out to play.

Then one day he called me to chat after drinking too much outside, and he couldn’t talk at all. He probably meant that I was too stingy and he invited me there

It's an expensive place, so I asked him to go to a cheaper place.

After that, I started to deliberately keep a distance. Later, he might always get into trouble and his family would cut off the debt. Even though I borrowed money twice, I lent it to him.

It didn’t matter. If so, we slowly cut off contact.

It’s not that I don’t like socializing, it’s just that I can’t go together.