First, the appearance. There's really nothing to see now. Men mainly look at temperament. I suggest you go out for a walk now, try to pick some good clothes and show your temperament. Spend some money and go to some high-end places, which is the worst monopoly. Please ask the shopping guide to explain your requirements, let her help you choose the right one, and then choose it yourself. You'd better have a female friend to accompany you and give you advice. Your female classmate, elder sister and younger sister of the same age can do anything. Choose clothes that suit you with reference. Pay attention when choosing clothes. Choose clothes with vertical stripes, which are slim, and a V-neck sweater to emphasize the sense of verticality. It's best not to open your coat and expose your stomach. Just choose the one that fits you. The style should be simple, the pockets should be hidden, and the clothes should be dark. Of course, you can also choose bright colors and yellow sweaters to dress up at home, mainly depending on the effect of your fitting.
! ! ! Don't tell from your description that you are extremely insecure about your appearance. Be sure to find a girl to help you as a reference. That's the point.
Second, in order to attract girls, in my experience, you must have the skills to shoot. The history, literature and sketch you mentioned earlier can be used as a breakthrough. For high school students, learning is also an ability. You can inquire about her preferences from the side and see which of the above you are good at is what interests her most. Just grab this item and try to display it. To be honest, the timing and manner of this performance depend on you. I can't help you, which is also very important. As long as you make achievements in this field, you can only make up for your shortcomings in other aspects and attract her attention if you have an advantage over other boys in one aspect.
! ! ! As long as she knows in her heart that you have a skill among these men, this need not be subjectively understood, so let her remember to be common sense. For example, painting, she must think you have done it. You can only talk to her about what you are good at, but pay attention to her reaction. Don't talk big, just try it, just two or three sentences a day.
Third, when you come down, you can try to talk to her about some other issues, mostly things she likes at ordinary times. You should pay attention to these things. For example, if she likes watching movies, you should know what movies she likes and try to recite them, so that you can lead the topic to this side, and naturally there will be no embarrassment, and your dumb shortcomings can be covered up.
! ! ! We must work hard in this respect and understand it carefully, otherwise it will fall short.
Fourth, after the above points are done, the friend relationship is estimated to be ok. In the following ordinary communication, add some provocative elements and make more jokes, preferably suggestive jokes, which can be hidden in front. Check online, or observe the performance, don't be eager for quick success, and master the scale (this is something that you have to know yourself and improvise). According to your description, her communication skills are good, so there should be no problem, as long as she doesn't show disgust.
! ! ! Don't make too many jokes.
5. Coming down is the way of confession-directly speaking, the simpler the better. Personally, if I like it, I will say it. With the previous foundation, I think there is still a great chance.
Finally, I mentioned: 1 Give you a neat appearance and make her shine. Show your strengths, your strengths, and a capable man is bound to attract people. Do what you like, and your understanding of her preferences reflects your depth. Show your love for her.
Speak your mind directly and see her answer.
The above is my opinion based on your description, most of which are personal experiences and ideas, and there will be shortcomings. If there is any reference, it must be decided according to the actual situation. Don't use your head, I hope I can help you!