Relieve children's psychological burden
As parents, the first thing to do is not to reprimand children, but to reduce their psychological burden first. When a child is bullied, his heart must be wronged, agitated and uneasy. At this time, as parents, we should stand on the child's point of view, first understand the child, comfort the child, listen to the child attentively, and let the child feel warm at this time, thus reducing inner harm and anxiety.
Ask the reason and know the truth.
After the child's mood is stable, ask the child the reason of the matter. If a child is bullied, parents must know the truth. After understanding the ins and outs of things with your children, analyze the reasons in the middle period with your children to see if it is because of a joke or really being bullied.
Stand firmly on the side of the child.
If you are really bullied, tell your child clearly that bullying others is wrong, and you must fight back if you are bullied. If you can't solve it yourself, ask for help. If parents, teachers or police uncles are around, you should ask for help. Let the children know that they must tell their parents when they are bullied outside, and they can't be bullied by others. Tell children that parents will always be the most solid backing for their children.
Cultivate children's awareness of rights
The child is still young, and I don't know if I have done a lot of things right. When children are bullied, many people are afraid of people who are stronger than themselves and dare not resist, so they give in. This is because children have no sense of rights. Parents should cultivate children's awareness of rights, so that children should not always be patient and have the courage to resist. Parents should educate their children that when they are bullied, it is most important to protect themselves and have a sense of self-protection.
Analyze the root cause
If you are always bullied, you should see if there is any problem with your child's communication style. If so, parents should give their children ways and skills to make friends and improve their ability to make friends.
strengthen one's body
Finally, let children keep fit, strengthen their physique and improve their resistance, so as to better protect themselves.