There are many ways to make friends. Many of us have many skills of making friends intentionally or unintentionally, and some even have principles of making friends. But many people communicate with others in a simple way, either unconsciously using or not using some skills. Here I share with you 1 1 tips for your social reference. -chat, talk about long-term things. When chatting with people, we should make people feel that they are a little farsighted, thinking about the future, and a person with long-term communication value. Let people feel that you are a person with long-term considerations, increase the space for people to establish relationships with you, and transcend trivial matters. -associate with some useless people in front of you. People with status and resources want to associate, but in the eyes of others, you may not be an onion. The relationship between classmates developed in that era when it was never clear who was long and who was short, and later became a long-term social support. We should concentrate part of our energy on helping these people who are of little use now and accumulate real value for the future. In fact, those who only associate with useful friends look more like villains. -Pay attention to social differences. Some people say that I have never had friends of civil servants, professors or investors in stocks, so I should consciously go to occasions, lectures and activities where these people may appear more often to associate with these friends. If I want to make friends with a friend in the investment field, maybe I can make friends with this person at an investment lecture. -Don't make promises to others casually. If you say yes, it means that 100% can do it. You don't have to say yes, and you may be embarrassed. I have a principle. First, I don't borrow money, except my relatives and friends. I will help you when you are seriously ill. I can do everything I promise, and I won't borrow what I say. A clear commitment can reduce your troubles and let others know how to deal with you. -Be close to knowledge or don't know people you don't like. In this unknown, you may find that these people are actually my favorite. Sometimes you have to get in touch with people and knowledge you don't like-junior high school and high school, including going to college, are the most open times in our lives. A very important reason is that when primary and secondary schools arrive at universities, we have to learn a lot of knowledge. When we are working, one of the important reasons for getting old quickly is that we only choose what we like, thus becoming very paranoid. So if you choose 10 books, you choose 3 books you don't like and 7 books you like. If you can persist in this way, you will keep an open mind about the future. -Contact old friends sometime. Everyone greeted me and said that they had something to do. The rule of social interaction is to find someone to accumulate emotions and bond with each other when they have nothing to do. Finding someone for something is employment, and finding someone for something is emotional investment. When you are free, you should call more people, eat, party and travel. -do things that are low-cost but make people feel that you care. You don't have to buy 3000 yuan moon cakes for Mid-Autumn Festival, but nowadays people are good at writing letters, so it's better to write a short message to each of your 30 friends on a holiday than to print your disgusting card. Therefore, even if you report your situation in the simplest way, it is better than forwarding a customized message that others have already received. -Organize all parties to expand relations. The husband of a family has her husband's friends, the wife has her friends, and the children have children's friends. If everyone's friends bring friends to get together, they can expand social relations many times, develop friendship with their families, increase the topic of * * *, and create human resources that they can talk to when something happens. -Care about your first impression. Unlike in the past, people have more communication opportunities now, but in fact, it is difficult for people to have a second communication, and most people will not even have a chance to meet each other. We push the van in the supermarket, and we don't look at many things carefully when choosing things. We can tell them at a glance, but we can tell them at a glance. So why do you have to consider my image as seriously as our interviews, meetings and forums? The first is to attract people's attention, and the second is that people actively pay attention to me. Pay full attention to the modification of images. -Be sure to use your business card. People need a communication link after meeting for the first time, and business cards play such a role. If Long Yongtu gives a speech here today, do you think Mr. Long can we change our business cards? He would say, I'm sorry I didn't bring my business card today. This is his debt because he didn't give you a business card. Don't print your mobile phone number on your business card. You wrote a number in front of him, and the way you wrote it shows that you have special respect for him. -Doing charity work with friends. Besides helping each other, it is very important for us friends to help the third and fourth people with our friendship and relationship. In this kind of communication, because you helped them, the newly helped people still owe you social debts. More importantly, we can experience the happiness of helping others, serving others and creating value for more people. Will not reduce the original friendship.