Meet her more often and let her remember my appearance

Call her often.

Mi often sends her text messages.

Praise her often and say nice things.

Ask to buy her gifts and often take her to eat delicious food.

It moved her.

West Give her trust, give her enthusiasm, and give her the expression of love.

Maintain a proper sense of distance...and then do it again from the beginning.

Of course, if you do it right, your love will go up an octave.

Love also requires rhythm, not an unchanging melody. Play when it’s time to play, and stop when it’s time to stop. This is the secret to making love last.

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How to communicate with her on the phone for more than 10 hours

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Have you ever had a similar experience when you were on the phone with her and fell into an awkward silence because you couldn't find the topic? If so, what should you do to be able to talk to her on the phone? Do you need to have a lot of knowledge and experience? In fact, this is not the case.

Okay, now I will teach you the skills of talking on the phone

1. Find the theme you want to develop through the other person's words. (If the other party says "I met a very strange person today and did a lot of strange things", you can start with "Actually, if you meet that kind of person..." to extend the conversation.)

2． Praise the other person for what they did well. (You did it beautifully last time...at that cocktail party last time, you were so beautiful...etc.)

3. Where and when did I think of the other person's words today? (I thought of you on the way to school and company today...etc.)

4. Tell humorous stories. (Each story can only be told once. If you keep repeating it, the other party will feel bored.)

5. Talk about other people's things (such as your friends, colleagues..., in fact, most people are very interested in other people's stories.)

6. Tell me about your plan. (This is a very important part. You can talk about your plans for the future, such as where we will go next month, how we will spend Christmas, and go to a movie on the weekend, so that the other person can imagine being with you. Future scenarios. )

7. Tell some interesting things that happened that day. (I saw the school beauty of our school today, and I think she is not half as beautiful as you...)

8. Let the other person start some topics by asking questions (Have you been to Beijing? Have you seen that movie? What did you think?)

9. Pay attention to caring about each other in details. (You must eat on time. The weather is very cold today. You should wear more clothes when going out...)

10. Show your determination to the other person. (I will definitely do better in the future... I didn’t seem to do that very well last time, and I will definitely not do it again in the future.)

To be honest, if you ask me to give it to a girl If I talk on the phone for more than 10 hours, I am absolutely confident.

However, if you often talk on the phone for too long, both parties will quickly become bored, and if you are calling on a mobile phone, the phone bill will be even more expensive. (Even if the phone bill is not a concern, it is still harmful to the brain!) Although you want to talk to her on the phone for a long time, controlling the length of the phone call and improving the quantity and quality of the calls will enhance the relationship more effectively. oh.

For example, although I am very busy, I really want to hear your voice, so I call you; have you eaten? You must eat on time, and you must pay attention to your health when losing weight; when the weather is cold, don't eat cold dishes, as that is not good for the stomach... Words like this will make the other person feel that you are very considerate.

The successful battle of blind date

Full of expectations, I embark on the road of blind date and meet the girl I love, but I have no way to express it.

First of all, what I want to tell you is that blind date is a very real process. If you fall in love, continue dating. If it doesn't suit your taste, that day may be the last time you see each other.

So, success or failure is often determined within a short period of time. Never think that I will do better the next time we meet, or that I will dress more decently the next time we meet. This idea is absolutely wrong.

If you are not satisfied that day, no one will give the other another chance.

Of course, handsome people will get higher scores when they meet for the first time, but people who are not good-looking will definitely not have no chance when they meet for the first time. They must give full play to their personal charm. You have to mobilize every nerve in your body, from clothing matching to speaking skills, to make the other person ignore your appearance and be attracted by your personality.

First of all, start by complimenting the other person and throw out the words of praise incessantly: I didn’t have high hopes, but unexpectedly... I didn’t expect that my friend introduced me to a Such a beautiful girl. You choose a place and I'll treat you all to dinner. The food there is really good... Let the other party see how polite you are.

Don’t talk nonsense (how about your past girlfriends, I have dated several girlfriends in the past, this is my first blind date...) Don’t show off yourself, keep the other person in a listening attitude A relaxed and happy mood when together.

Use your sense of humor and tell her interesting things, which can also enhance your relationship.

Wear casual clothes. If you wear formal clothes, others will think you are dull, and if you don't match them properly, you will look old-fashioned.

Be brave enough to speak your mind when it comes to money matters

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I often hear around me Some of my friends who are students are complaining that they say something like asking their girlfriends to pay. This is very embarrassing and requires too much courage.

It seems that boys paying for money has become an unspoken social rule. Maybe saying something like asking a girl to pay will make people equate the boy with being embarrassed or incompetent.

So boys must be financially well off... Not so. Men also need to ask for pocket money from their families when they are students. Many people of that era would advise students who wanted or were about to fall in love not to fall in love if they did not have enough pocket money. Some girls always only have the round-trip fare in their pockets when going for an appointment, while some girls bear part of the expenses based on actual circumstances.

We cautious boys don’t have the courage to say anything on a date that would make a girl pay for it. On days when I don't have money in my pocket, I often resist the pain of lovesickness and reject the other person on the grounds that I am busy today or have too many things to deal with.

Is this a matter of boys' self-esteem...or are they afraid that the other party will know about his poor financial strength and cut off contact...?

What I want to emphasize here is that it is not embarrassing or shameful to talk about your difficult financial situation.

I will pay the bill today, and I can let her pay the bill tomorrow. Is it so difficult and embarrassing to say this?

Is it because she has no money in her pocket that she will leave my side? Just because of the difficult economic situation, will she think that I am not good enough or chic enough?

Painful ideological baggage It's just a figment of your imagination. Girls are far from being as petty as you think. You can smile and say to her that I have invited you to the dinner tonight, and you will pay for the drinks tonight... Although there are many boys around us who are unable to do this or find it difficult to talk about it.

Why do two people who are immersed in happiness seem so uneasy and anxious in front of money... But we shouldn't always go to appointments with the round-trip fare.

Don’t you think it’s a bit strange for a girl to have only the fare in her pocket, and when she pays the bill, the boy has to settle the bill?

Love is more valuable than money. Even a small cup of hot coffee in front of the vending machine can warm each other. Being tied up by money too early and leading to a breakup is heartbreaking.

When the relationship between the two parties begins to be bound by money, it is indeed a headache to consider how to solve it...

Between money and girls, those boys who are cautiously trying to pierce or are about to pierce the thin layer of paper should calm down their inner turmoil and calm down to reflect carefully.

My dear, how about we meet today?

Oh...I'm sorry. I'm a little busy today (actually I've run out of money).

Hmph...you don't like me?

No...

What will happen if the scene mode is changed?

My dear, how about we meet today?

Oh...but I am already short of money today. I can’t buy you delicious stuff anymore, will you still see me even so?

That’s it. Since there is no money, let’s not meet. (No girl will answer you like this. If there is such a girl around you, then forget about her. This is my calm advice to you)

It doesn't matter. Let's meet today. I can buy you a lot of delicious stuff...

Isn’t this the result you have been waiting for? We should calmly reflect on it.

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Don't expect too much

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Don’t have too many demands and expectations for anything.

The most important reason is:

When you convey your requirements or expectations to her, she will work harder to maintain the relationship because she likes you. She will think that it is not enough for me to just give you this way, I have to work harder to cherish you...

However, when she is trying hard to cherish you, you convey the efforts she is making and your love. If the expectations are far apart, then girls will subconsciously think that I have tried my best, but you are never satisfied, and I don’t know what else I can do for you... and will choose to leave your side.

Because of your endless demands, the other person will think that they are unable to match you, thus shaking the other person's belief in your love, and the date of breaking up is very close.

It is very difficult to perfectly match the love you desire with the love she can give.

Secret Techniques in Notes

The author believes that the effectiveness of passing notes is inseparable from the behavior of girls passing notes to each other during their school days.

In that era, a small note could evoke the resonance between hearts. Notes can make many girls feel nameless excitement and bewilderment. They can show off at will and greatly satisfy their young self-esteem. Record some emotional words or heart-touching sentences on a piece of paper. Its effect is more contagious than any verbal confession.

The difference between verbal confession and note confession.

Verbal confession: It is easily affected by changes in the environment at that time, and the transmission of consciousness is unclear. It requires courage and overcomes many uncertain factors...

Passing the note: The consciousness is clearly conveyed, there is no need to bear too much mental pressure, and there is no need to overcome many uncertain factors...

The method of writing a note is very simple.

The content should be concise and do not put too much pressure on the other party. If you have confidence in your painting talent, the integration of text and painting will be more effective.

Don’t make the text too long.

For example:

Every encounter makes me tremble inexplicably...

At this moment, you make me overwhelmed... (Innocent type)

I don’t have the courage to face it directly, so I wrote a note...

Yes You have something to say... (Curiosity-inducing type)

Waiting for your reply.

010-555-6666 (actually tell him or her your email address, reply The probability will be greater, because girls generally do not choose to contact them by phone easily when they receive a note from a strange boy, so it is best to leave an email address. )

P.S Thank you. The existence of you occupies a corner of my heart...meeting you made me regain the confusion and excitement that I had forgotten for a long time...

Thank you... (this is the point).

After receiving the note, some girls may throw it into the trash can.

But a note filled with sincerity and expectations will not have the same fate. On the contrary, its mistress will show it off to relatives and friends.

While showing off, she will get suggestions and feedback from many people around her. The person who wrote the note seemed nice...get in touch and see...

If you want to achieve the above effects, using the paper secret technique will make you even more powerful.

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Facing the cold girl

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Some girls give people a heavy feeling, always rejecting others thousands of miles away whether they say hello or communicate.

In a cold and heavy atmosphere, it will be difficult to interact with them.

However, it is often because of this feeling that boys' attention shifts from cheerful girls to them.

In fact, if you continue to communicate with this type of girl, you will be surprised to find that it is not as difficult as you think.

If there is an iceberg beauty you admire by your side, don’t be afraid of communication because of her cold appearance, because your love rivals will also be shocked and stagnant by her cold appearance. The pace of pursuit.

The more this happens, the more we should take action and muster the courage to challenge.

The more cold-hearted a girl is, the more unexpectedly you will find that you have a lot of time and opportunities to be alone with her.

In the long-term relationship, you will find that her smile is so sweet and pure from time to time.

Don’t be confused by her appearance, believe in yourself, follow your feelings, and take your firm steps. .

The body follows the heart.

True Confession

What should I say when confessing my true feelings to her?

I like you, let’s date; I seem to be starting to like you I love you, and slowly I find that my heart is completely occupied by you... Most people will use sentences like this to express their true love.

Do you think these expressions are too feeble?

Don’t ignore the other person’s position and feelings and only express your emotional declaration from your own unilateral perspective.

The above type of confession will inevitably cause her to have questions such as "Why do you like me...", "We haven't known each other for a long time..." and so on.

Confession is not only about declaring your feelings to the other person and letting the other person feel your love. At the same time, you also need to consider the skills of confession from the other person's perspective.

So what kind of confession can become a perfect declaration of love?

Give yourself some time to think and think carefully about whether you really like her.

Boys are generally eager to express their feelings and eager to get answers from each other. But don't forget to value the time you spend with her more than anything else, and don't rush to establish a relationship between two people.

When I confessed to her...

I calmly asked myself why I like you. Every time I spend with you is so beautiful.

Tell me if we can be together often...

I also want to see you today, but I still miss you after seeing you...

This feeling of longing... is my sincerity …

Using these graceful words instead of direct expressions can reduce the mental burden on the other party when listening to the confession.

The same goes for expressing love through letters.

I like you. Instead of making such a simple and straightforward declaration, it is better to write down some good memories of your relationship with her, all her advantages, and at the end, write words such as "I want to continue to date you...".

Although confession can be seen as a yearning for what the two parties can do in future relationships, it also means expressing beautiful feelings.

Confession does not just mean that all behaviors will cease when the expressed feelings are rejected by the other party.

Give her enough time to think about it.

Give her enough time to choose, to feel your consideration for her, and let her get to know you again...

Give her some time to impress her heart ...

Wrong calculation

I thought I had good looks and good conditions, and she seemed shy... I thought I could win her heart immediately by confessing my feelings. If you think so, you are Wrong calculation.

I think it is very rude to tell her when we meet for the first time: I love you, let’s date, I like you...etc.

To impress a girl is not as easy as opening the door. Girls will only open their hearts step by step and slowly.

Instead of choosing straightforward expression, it is better to let her feel your kindness more during frequent dates and slowly move her heart.

No matter how beautiful a girl is and how tempting you are, don’t rush to express your love straight to the point.

Shall we date?

Okay, let’s get in touch. (You must be cautious in dating.)

Dating is not just a simple verbal promise as mentioned above.

When to confess

After you are convinced that both parties have established a true love, in order to avoid eventually losing the person you love, it is necessary to reveal your true self to each other. Maybe my point of view seems a bit humble, but I think you must choose the right time to reveal your true side.

For example, you say you are an ordinary person even though you are a soldier, you say you are an office worker even though you are a student, you say you are a company employee even though you are a handyman...

Perhaps it is just because it is your first time. meet without telling the other person who they really are. I thought I would never see her again after today, but I didn't expect that after meeting again and again, I would fall in love with her for a long time, and finally I had to tell her the truth about you.

Expose the truth and start over...you must have such thoughts. But by now, your confession may make others complain about why you didn't tell the truth from the beginning.

What to do? Hide it first and tell it later...continue seeing each other, increasing the affection, making her like you more, and then tell the truth.

The more she likes you and loves you, the easier it will be for her to forgive you and understand your position.

Please remember, this is very important.

It is very important to know the right time to tell the truth.

The consequences of acting only based on one's own mood and thoughts are far different from those of finding the right time to express one's shortcomings after increasing feelings. Although the method may seem timid, it must be kept in mind.

Prohibited

When she is not mentally prepared to date you, make unilateral demands for dating, ignore her time and ideas, and give up after being rejected pursuit of her.

In a relationship, it is absolutely forbidden to confuse your own behavioral standards with the girl's behavioral requirements and to be eager for success.

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Hurrying up

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Inquiring about some elegant places in advance and understanding more places suitable for dating can be regarded as one of the important strategies and skills in love.

A store with an elegant atmosphere and good taste...

Many boys, especially those who have no love experience, often get along with boys, so they have no time to consider or deliberately inquire about these things in their daily lives. place.

One of the common mistakes boys make when meeting girls is to be in a hurry.

For example...

Let’s go to dinner together.

Okay.

Hmm...where should we go?

Then I searched blindly...

Not only did I search blindly, but I also kept asking what I wanted to eat and where to go... Then I took her around to find a suitable place.

This is a very angry thing for her. If you have reserved a place for this date in advance, you can take her directly to the date.

This habit will become your advantage. You ask the other person what she wants to eat today, and if she says what she wants to eat, you...ah! I know there is a restaurant that makes delicious food, let’s go there.

If you answer kindly like this, who wouldn’t fall in love with you... When we first started dating, I would often come out an hour early and take the girl to dinner after checking out the place in advance. .

Such efforts will definitely greatly improve your image in her mind.

Never rush into a date, prepare in advance and analyze every date detail in detail.

The secret of compliments

Sometimes compliments can arouse confusion or have the opposite effect.

For example, if you are worried about a red and swollen nose, but you say that her nose is beautiful, in the eyes of the other party, you are not complimenting her but making fun of her.

How should you praise the other person?

When complimenting a girl, don’t praise her in general terms, but praise her in a way that she can see and feel.

Speaking of beauty...it's better to praise a certain part. For example, your eyes are very beautiful, your nose is very beautiful, your lips are very sexy...

And girls are more beautiful than others. Boys pay more attention to their appearance and take more care with their grooming. Since you put so much thought into it, of course the girl hopes to get your compliments or a hint of her beauty.

Wow! The clothes you are wearing today are so beautiful, the leather shoes are beautiful, the hairpin is cute, and the hairstyle is quite elegant...

But don’t praise the other person too much.

There is a saying that goes well, anyone who hears praise from others will be immersed in it and become a child.

Everyone in the world has their own unique charm in some part. Tell her what makes her attractive and give her a thumbs up. Complimenting the other person is a basic way to easily impress the other person without spending money, and it is also one of the shortcuts to impress the other person.

Cool Quote 2

Love is not homework.

Cannot postpone it until tomorrow!

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Light the flame

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Look for the most disgusting rational picture in your inner self-feelings

1. Use dissatisfaction with appearance to light candles (limited time starting from the starting point of love).

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Light the candle slowly with character flaws and dissatisfactions you have never noticed.

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The understanding formed in the past turned into a breeze, trying to extinguish the flame, but all efforts were in vain.

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Use your sense of responsibility to try to delay the melting time of the candle and try to let it go out naturally, but it is not that easy.

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As the candle burns, the conflict gradually heats up. Looking at the burned candle, I try to change my mind.

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Suddenly looking back at the scene when I touched the candle, I felt a lot of anxiety and sadness in my heart.

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Looking at the burned candle, I decided to throw it away.

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When the candle burns out, you can find another candle, or choose to stand alone in a long period of darkness.

2. Use character dissatisfaction to light the candle.

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Thoughts that don’t suit me cause the candle to burn faster.

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Feeling the appearance does not delay the burning time.

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The understanding formed in the past turned into a breeze, trying to extinguish the flame, but all efforts were in vain.

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Trying to change the other person’s personality, but it doesn’t feel easy.

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The above process is repeated over and over again, and the candle gradually goes out.

Fire (the beginning of breakup) can melt the candle (love), leaving only wax tears (memories), and everything else will disappear.

We can look for another candle, and after it burns out, look for the next candle again. Maybe my world will be brightened by candles.

However,

There is no candle in the world that cannot be lit. We should also know that some candles emit fragrance because they are burned, and they become more beautiful because they are burned.

There will come a day when you will use the candles you have to light your lamp that will never go out...

Although you are so down and out now, there will always be someone there. Waiting for you in the darkness, light your lamp of love and start another starting point.

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Point of divergence

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Kuwait Park: Haha...I moved her so much, she must be fascinated by me...she will definitely like me.

Kuwait Park, I want to tell you something that you haven't noticed yet. ┃……..┃……….┃……….┃……….┃←A heart of acceptance.

A girl’s heart will not be shaken by a single move.

Just like the lines above, because of the divergence points, the emotion cannot reach the appropriate height.

She will not fall in love with you or fall in love with you just because of a small touch from you.

Because I am moved, I will trust you more and feel that you are a good person, but I will never like you immediately because of this. This is the starting point for you to develop a good impression of you, so don't be angry because she doesn't immediately like you or interact with you. You should care and love her more as you wait.

We often see examples of people who ignore differences and rush to pursue success but end up in failure.

Be sure to recognize the existence of differences and make her like you.

About courtship

1. Pursuing beautiful girls is more likely to succeed than pursuing ugly girls.

2. Although some girls are ugly, they may not fall for the bait, so don’t think it will hurt your self-esteem.

3. Shy postures are more attractive than skilled postures. When approaching a girl, be careful not to make her feel scared or disgusted.

4. If you are determined to start pursuing someone, don’t hesitate and have the courage to communicate with the other person. Be confident...too much panic will lead to lost opportunities.

5. Even if the other party refuses in person, catch up and talk to her at least three times. The probability of success will be very high.

6. Learn to use your wisdom to obtain the other party’s contact information during the long period of anticipation.

7. Show that this is the first time or unskilled in front of the other person. Don't talk about your past. No matter how close the relationship is, there is no need to be too honest.

8. Don’t judge the other person as a woman who can be played just because she is dressed more sexy.

9. Don’t be disappointed by failure.

10. Have the confidence to catch her.

11. Know yourself. (Having clothes or appearance that can attract girls.)

Cool Quote 3

The process of loving and being loved gives us many things. But too many of us only care about how we feel, without truly understanding its true meaning.

Before you are sure whether the other person's behavior is out of love, try to avoid unilateral disappointment and heartache just because the two parties have different ideas.

The story behind chasing girls

There are two types of people.

One type is people who wander around on roads, schools and other places for the purpose of chasing girls.

The other is to accidentally discover the person you like and make up your mind to pursue the person.

So which of these two people has a higher chance of winning? Although the results may be different depending on the circumstances, I still side with the second type of person. (Even if you only get the contact information of the other party, you will be satisfied.)

Most people who go shopping with the purpose of chasing girls are just for fun.

Although playing together is not a big problem, it will cause a great burden to the other party.

Of course, if she and I are both single (if we both have a good relationship, and we can have tea together if there are no other dates or special things to do), then it won't be a big problem. But if she is with her friends, even if they have a good impression of each other, they will fail due to their friends' opposition.

Because they have their own things to do when they go out, they will not easily cater to your purpose.

If you really like it, you can ask the other person to leave their contact information so that you can contact them later. But the idea of ??"just asking the other party to leave their contact information" will reduce your probability of success.

If you discover her beauty by chance and try to launch a courtship offensive, then you must be more sincere than the first type of person, and your speech and behavior will also reveal your true nature. of sincerity. (Not for fun, but really because I like it...)

Once the purpose of hanging out is eliminated, you will be happy to get her contact information, and she will gradually let down her guard.

The opportunity to meet is not limited to today. If you have made an appointment with her to meet again, learn to be satisfied after getting her contact information.

Similarly, if you have got the contact information of the girl you like in a nightclub and have made an appointment to meet again in the future, don’t force yourself to go to another place to continue playing. Most people don’t know the size well. And something went wrong. Chasing girls requires patience.

Also keep in mind that you also need to be considerate when chasing girls.

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Strategy after getting contact information

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What should you do after you get the contact information of the girl you like? Although her contact information is available, it is too early to conclude that the work is done.

How can I get her to get close to me?

1. Don’t judge her reason for leaving her contact information easily. Don't think about it. Maybe it's because she likes me. Maybe she just told me unintentionally that she just wants to be friends. She is not good at rejecting others so...

Don't leave her contact information because of her. Just the idea or reaction of her liking you.

2. Do not use wrong words (swear words, exaggerated tone) during the call, otherwise it will easily lead to the tragedy of failure before meeting. Be cordial and polite when speaking on the phone.

3. If both parties are familiar with each other, they should start to let the other party pay more attention to their own strengths. To stimulate her curiosity... (Let her see how hard you work and how hard you live, let her understand your taste, improve your image, and tell her that you are currently preparing some projects, etc., you can induce her I think you will have a bright future because of your excellence...) But...don't go into too much detail...she will lose her curiosity. ? 4. But this deadline can not exceed 10 days...you must meet after the contact lasts for about a week.

Do you have time? What do you want to do? Don't use clichés like this... I know a very good restaurant. Let's go there together on Saturday... Use an active tone. (During this period, the good impression and intimacy you left on her will make her like you?)