Teacher Yu Fan of Anhui Aizhiqiao Marriage Service Center, who has been engaged in marriage introduction for a long time, made a brief statement on the general situation of the matchmaking agency;

1. matchmaking service is an information intermediary service, which provides information intermediary and marriage counseling services for both men and women who need to choose a spouse. Arrange matchmaking service according to the self-information and mate selection requirements filled in by both men and women in the matchmaking office. The premise of each service arrangement between the two parties is that both parties' "hardware" are within their respective optional ranges, providing advice and help for problems arising in the process of love.

2. Matchmaking agencies are limited by their members' resources when providing matchmaking services for marriage seekers, so it goes without saying that small matchmaking agencies have few resources, so the choice is small or relatively small, while large matchmaking agencies have many resources, so the choice is large or relatively large. But even if it meets your requirements in the membership database of the local super-large matchmaking agency, the resources you require are not unlimited, and you can take them at will. According to statistics, the success rate of large matchmaking agencies is around 72%, that is to say, two out of every three members can get married successfully. Those who stay are members who failed to hold hands for various reasons.

Generally speaking, before joining the membership, the marriage seeker will get a general idea of how many candidates of the matchmaking agency meet his own conditions for choosing a spouse. Only after being approved by both parties, the marriage seeker will choose to entrust the matchmaking agency to serve him as a member. Therefore, there is no doubt that at least in terms of the number and level of members, local large-scale brand matchmaking agencies have considerable advantages.

4. New members will have more opportunities to meet in a short time, because many members in the matchmaking agency have not yet decided on the object, which meets your requirements. If you fail to seize the opportunity in the selection of an agreed group of people, you may need to wait for the arrival of new members who meet your requirements in the future.

5. According to the operation experience of large-scale matchmaking agencies, it should be said that in the actual arrangement process, it is easier for a marriage seeker to succeed when he meets 5- 12 candidates. The objects arranged by the matchmaking agency are basically matched with you in hardware. What you need to do is to match each other in "software" such as moral standards, values and living habits. Once these aspects are more than 75% * *, then you will see the dawn of successful matching. If your number of appointments exceeds this limit, you might as well find the reason from yourself. If you can face up to some reasons, properly adjust the requirements of mate selection, expand the scope of choice, and then continue to satisfy, then you are not far from success. Otherwise, you will drift away from success.

6. Every marriage seeker should always communicate with the staff of the matchmaking agency about his own situation and thoughts on the people he meets, so as to get advice and help at any time, so that the staff can better understand their own personality and habits, which will help the staff to serve you more pertinently in the future. Of course, the staff of this institution should have a strong level of psychological counseling on marriage and love, and the comprehensive cultural quality of the matchmaker should also have a higher level. I believe that in this respect, the matchmaker teachers of large matchmaking agencies are well prepared.

(This article is only for the reference of friends who get married in formal matchmaking agencies, excluding informal matchmaking operations. )