And what kind of discourse system and intergenerational characteristics do the 95-year-olds who once watched their brothers and sisters blind date take to the stage? Hard Sugar Jun even vaguely felt that he was not watching a blind date program, but just a social diagram-the fear and love of this generation and the previous generation.
Closing night, the youth after 95.
The closing night (July 10) was really wonderful. Two female guests in the fourth season (No.12) of China's New Blind Date let Alina Zhang, the goddess of love, and Si Wen call out "No wonder the last issue appeared", and the electronic sound engineer Sun Lingju left a deep impression on the audience, as well as the life of an ancient beauty, Nan Jun.
In the face of beauty, everyone can't wait to find out. Sun Lingju said that she was 23 and a half years old, and Bai Keli didn't know until she asked, so she was stuck at the end of 1997, and 1998 almost had a special birthday, so she added half a year.
There is another question that the masses have been puzzled for many years: if the DJ doesn't rub the disc, can it still play normally? Sun Lingju said that you can also play, and rubbing vegetables is purely to create an atmosphere. Although Sun Lingju is young, she has a clear marriage plan at the age of 28. If the plan fails, she plans to make money and see if there is anyone she likes in the next four and a half years. Yes, it is the post-95 s who are calm and rational at the same time.
Sun Xiao's demands on her boyfriend are also very dead. She can dance, but don't dance too well. If she dances better than her, she refuses to accept it. Such a maverick girl, a little strong, created a tense atmosphere among male guests as soon as she appeared. Bai Keli spoke: "You ignored the business bottom line in order to get close to girls!" Yes, boys only have a wedding line with female guests!
My Fair Lady is a Gentleman, and the brave confession of three male guests to Sun Lingju made the screen full of pink bubbles on the closing night. Gao Qinghui's confession is very poetic: "I still lack a mistress in the Martian world. Would you like to be my hostess in the Martian world? " Yang Fuxiang's sincerity is beyond words. Deng suggested that we can create a better life with the female guests.
Hard candy, if you are a little grandson, is definitely "squandering flowers and getting attractive." But Sun Xiao firmly chose Gao Qinghui for a simple reason: "I think you and your friends are the people who will appear in my life circle, and we can talk a little." In fact, no matter how beautiful the idea is, it must be realized. Didn't Lou Nan Jun, another female guest, also choose Shen Zhinan, a fellow Shaoxing native? When they talked in Shaoxing dialect, the eyes of other male guests lost their fighting spirit.
The father of relatives and friends group Shen Zhinan carefully analyzed the matching degree of the two in their careers. "My son and you do business. He is doing beauty treatment. Doing beauty is not taking short videos and taking photos. Just don't have to find a place to take pictures. " This God's assist made Bai Keli ridicule: "Will you leave a way for 12?"
Li Ziyu, who stole the female guest as a group of relatives and friends last time, came back with the mentality of trying to make up for it, because she still dug a "pit" for her brother Zhao Shoupei. Alina Zhang quickly stopped: "You stop, that's not what he said." On the stage of China's new blind date, friends and relatives can not only help, but also "cut their beards". Hard candy jun is not the first time I have met him.
If parents represent the marriage view of the previous generation, then brothers and girlfriends can give advice from the perspective of their peers. The relatives and friends group of China New Blind Date 4 found the common denominator of the two by integrating generations. It can not only attract young people to watch, but also keep parents who have mastered the remote control highly excited.
Slash youth, bread and love must be there.
In the previous dating program, the column of female guests' career introduction was enough, but now a few pages of PPT may not be comprehensive enough. When girls' careers become more diverse, will their marriage and love choices change?
Most of the post-95 female guests who made great strides in "China New Blind Date 4" are slash youths with multiple roles. They have a stable income, a wide range of interests and hobbies, and are full of confidence in life. Not only can we live a good life and maintain our independence, but we can also find a correct position in social life.
Wang Jiaxin, the most beautiful charterer, runs an apartment, and also runs a clothing online shop as a part-time model. Xu Huan also works as a part-time singing anchor while attending graduate school; Wu Yuxi, a legal beauty, is a lawyer, a barbecue shop owner and an anchor. Sun Lingju learns various skills in her spare time, knows erhu and makes videos by herself.
As a sample mine of post-95 girls, the lens of China New Blind Date 4 is not limited to their marriage and love life, but takes marriage and love as an incision, providing them with a discourse space to express multiple values. Yue, a swimming coach from Yue Guang, resigned because she wanted to do something she wanted to do when she was young, while Sun Lingju, who was obsessed with saving, hoped to have saving as a guarantee for her future.
Regarding the attitude towards love and career, the post-1995 girls show super enterprising spirit, but also retain the expectation of sweet love. Jin Bo, a media person, is very busy at work. When his career is booming, he can only sleep for three hours every day, hoping to find a boy who works hard all night. I've had enough of the hardships of starting a business, and a little sweet love is not bad.
Wang Jiaxin said frankly: "Girls must have their own careers in order to give themselves enough sense of security." What is even more admirable is that she has always maintained exquisiteness and always paid attention to makeup even if she didn't go out. Not only to please yourself, but also to please yourself with makeup. As for whether makeup is "please men" or "please yourself", it is actually the dating show that gives the answer first.
Luo Jiangping not only wants to open his own yoga studio, but also wants to give money to the man. Where did this virtuous girl come from? However, giving money to the man is not as "feudal" as we thought. Think about it, if the woman earns more than the man, isn't the man in charge of money a "housekeeper" who counts every second?
In a stereotype, people think that girls tend to be the model of maternal love in Zao Fu. For example, my father has spoiled my mother for decades like a little princess. Do girls want to find a boy who can take care of themselves when they grow up? But Li Qian's choice is surprising. She is more eager to grow up with the other half.
There are also some strange standards of cocoa love, and girls after 95 don't have to worry about being "too small" when they say it. "Hand-controlled" building Nan Jun directly goes to the mud film, and the hand is not good-looking, passing the ball; On the spot; The Argentine beauty Mo Hanxi just doesn't like the tough guy style in Europe and America, and people love our Asian specialty small fresh meat; Ding Jiaying doesn't want her boyfriend to be smaller than her face and even have a clear facial aspect ratio.
The deep love in the heroine's play is particularly vivid in the post-1995 s. When the male guest explodes the lamp to rob relatives, Wu Yubei can refute without stage fright: "I think he is a little familiar, maybe he has seen it in his dream." Zou doesn't need a boyfriend to coax her into accepting a "competitive" boyfriend. She can't get past the routine of admitting her mistakes first.
Marriage and life are worth spending some time.
Why do people watch dating shows? Maybe it's not just misfits' happiness of throwing candy, but also the potential psychological expectation of life enlightenment.
The topics discussed in China's New Blind Date, such as whether the property before marriage should be notarized, whether girls need to take the initiative in the face of love, whether couples can look at each other's mobile phones, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing to be a good lover, etc., give the audience more perspectives and look at similar situations in life more rationally.
John Gray, an American psychologist, once attributed the contradiction in love and marriage to the difference in thinking between men and women. But in fact, the situation encountered by each generation is different in specific content.
Chen Qian, a female guest, wants to know about male guests, so she can directly check the Tik Tok praise videos of the other party and speed up the efficiency through technical means. Wu Yubei thinks that notarization of premarital property is a preventive measure, but Alina Zhang says that love should not be too rational, and notarization seems to have made a retreat for the breakdown of feelings from the beginning.
Usually, boys with rich experience in love will be rejected by Neptune routine, but mixed-race school flower week likes "love master". Everyone is so busy, who needs to accompany the boy to grow up and then let him use his experience to serve the next object? Why can't I be a "cool person"? This logic is full, and Hard Candy applauds.
Since the development of dating programs, there is not much room for finding new tricks in form and process. This season's "New Blind Date in China" brings the male guests back to the blind date "venue" through the setting of the glass room on the top floor, and the setting of the link of grabbing wheat and robbing relatives makes the whole process more dramatic and unknown.
Compared with the previous three seasons, this season has increased to three doors, and two male guests selected by female guests will wait behind the red and blue happiness doors. Impulse is the devil. It's true that the plot of stealing relatives is beautiful, but so is "wasting guests". Kaka abolished three guests in the first issue, and the heart of the program group was probably bleeding.
Shao Zhiyu, the independent producer of the Oriental TV Center and the general director of China's New Blind Date, concluded in an interview: "Although we have great freedom, we have a relatively scientific rule or style of play. After you come here, all your thoughts and ideas will naturally be aroused. In this process, we will gradually see some topics, some social phenomena and the thinking of a generation. I hope this is subtle. "
Set up a process that allows guests to express their emotions and find the right person for them. The fourth season of China's New Blind Date builds a bridge to communicate with young people with a brand-new discourse system. From "parents are more at ease" to "like you, young", behind the change of advertising language is the change of production thinking.
Stripping off the cloak of blind date, from Gao Jiabo's mother who teaches at the university to Shen Zhinan's father who has a glib tongue. The program depicts the vivid life from parents to young people, and also witnessed the quiet change of social concepts. Emerging occupations are no longer misunderstood, and multiple choices are acceptable.
While the love network has become extremely dramatic, Oriental TV insists on seeing the true face of young people in the fourth season of China's New Blind Date, which undoubtedly completes the value docking of personal feelings and social orientation. It also proves once again with a perfect ending that the prospect of "upgrading" intergenerational dating programs is to build and spread the concept of marriage and love that conforms to both mainstream ideology and modern civilization.