However, some people gang up, run amok, make use of each other, and build their friendship on the basis of so-called buddies and self-interest ... These can't stand the test of time! On the way of making friends, some people walk easily. This is because they adhere to the principle of making friends, that is, sharing the same ambition with Taoism, being generous to help others and being generous to others.
The common aspiration is in harmony with the Tao, that is to say, only when friends have the same aspiration can they learn from each other's strong points and move forward on the same avenue. Li Bai and Du Fu were great poets of their time, and when they met in Luoyang, they met each other for a long time, so they roamed the famous mountains of Sichuan together. Du Fu was attracted by Li Bai's elegant demeanor and brilliance, but also worried about his sharp-edged attitude and arrogance. Therefore, he gave him the advice of friendship: "Who is the hero who drinks crazy songs and lives empty?" Li Bai also attached great importance to Du Fu's friendship. When they shook hands with tears, they decided to meet again: "When will Shimen Road be opened again?" Up to now, their brotherly friendship is still a much-told story. Nowadays, some people are only loyal to others, but they don't care about their ambitions. They are even punished for a moment's anger, and as a result, they don't even have real friends! Why bother?
Being generous to help others means selflessly and enthusiastically helping people who are in trouble or at fault, and being gentle and friendly with others! The ancients said, "I can't make people happy with spring breeze, I can't rain people with summer rain, and I will be poor!" " There was a young man who lost his footing, thinking that he would never see anyone again, and he was silent all day. At this time, sincere friends extended a helping hand to him and influenced his cold heart. Extending the hands of friendship not only helps others, but also gains friendship. Why not?
being generous to others means treating people or things around you with an open mind like the sea. This is a kind of an upright man is open and poised's demeanor, a kind of temperament that is far away from home, and a style that the prime minister can punt in his stomach, which also contains the connotation of not doing to others what you don't want others to do. Making friends with such a mentality is just to make room for the faults of others in your heart, but it has fulfilled your own personality charm. Isn't it a step back?
Ba Jin said: "Friendship is a bright light in life. Without it, there is no glory in life; Without it, life will not blossom and bear fruit. " Indeed, friendship can add joy and courage to a person's life, and it can make people brainstorm without being alone. But the important thing is to see how you choose friends and how to establish and develop friendship!
Now, some students, with a group of so-called buddies, eat, drink, pander and fight from time to time. This is something that the school and students can't tolerate, and the consequences are only for themselves to taste! I also hope that everyone will take a warning and make good friends instead of bad friends! Establish and develop true friendship!
It is the principle of making friends in our life that we share the same aspiration, be generous to help others and be generous to others. Only on the basis of this principle can we win sincere friendship and get joy!