? Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends listen more, which is beneficial. " If you are friendly and soft, you will lose your friendship. It means: "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and knowledgeable people. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter on the surface, people who slander behind their backs and people who are good at rhetoric. "

? There are not many friends, but two or three bosom friends are enough. What kind of people you choose to be friends, what kind of life you will have. Don't please, stay away from flatterers; Don't hide, stay away from people who are duplicitous; Don't be glib and stay away from glib people. Try to walk with the wise and make yourself better and better; Try to associate with others and let yourself climb to the peak of life. High mountains and flowing water, it is hard for a bosom friend to make friends, cultivate one's morality first, and choose friends carefully.