It does not mean that all rich friends are bad, but all poor friends are good. What we have to do now is to get rid of the fog in front of us, and don’t blindly look only at money on the road to making friends, but to see clearly what we need.

Since ancient times, many people seem to like to cling to powerful people. I feel that as long as I make friends with powerful people, it will be of great benefit to me. This attitude of these people often creates this phenomenon: rich valleys, poor alleys.

What does it mean? It means that some people are very rich, but even if they live in remote areas, there are still people who visit them; some people are very poor, but even if they live in the center of a lively city, no one visits them. visit. Although this metaphor is a bit exaggerated, it is not difficult to reflect the mentality of quite a few people, which may include you and me.

Fushan Valley, Poor Alley

What is most important to you? People are animals that are good at protecting themselves. They are afraid of being hurt, so they always look for someone who can protect them. Use your own things as a barrier. But can wealthy people be our barrier? The answer is, no matter how wealthy someone is, their money still belongs to them, so what benefits will we get? We may only get a little illusion wrapped in vanity. Let’s talk about the poor people living in the “city center”. Can you guarantee that the souls of these poor people are as poor as their possessions? In fact, the most important thing to us is that if a poor person has a kind heart, soul, then we would rather "cling to poverty."

We have many friends, some rich and some poor. Recall, have we ignored those poor but kind friends? Ms. Jin is a teacher who teaches at a university. She has a cheerful and lively personality and has many friends, but she only hangs out with the more powerful friends among them. This characteristic of Ms. Jin was formed when she first entered the workplace. She believes that only by making friends with people in the "upper class" can she feel safe, but she can't tell exactly where this is reflected. It wasn't until one day that she finally woke up.

One morning, Teacher Jin felt a little uncomfortable, but he still went to teach the students. When I returned to the dormitory, I fell on the bed, feeling cold all over and dizzy. I don't even have the energy to pour myself a glass of water. What makes Teacher Jin anxious is that there is another class in the afternoon, and he may not be able to attend it, so he must quickly ask other teachers to take over.

As I thought about it, I took out my mobile phone and planned to call a young female teacher with whom I had a good relationship. After the call was connected, Teacher Jin weakly explained the situation to her wealthy friend. Unexpectedly, the female teacher said that she was shopping in the mall and did not want to come back to teach the students. After saying that, he hung up the phone without even saying a word about his condition. Teacher Jin felt extremely uncomfortable when he thought about how good his relationship with this friend was.

At this time, Teacher Zhang, who was in the same dormitory, walked in, saw Teacher Jin, and quickly asked what was going on. Teacher Jin looked at the simple Teacher Zhang and said, "It doesn't matter, I just have a cold and a fever." "

Teacher Xiao Zhang hurried over and touched Teacher Jin's head, and said in a very concerned tone: "Why do you have such a severe fever?" Then he picked up the kettle and gave it to Teacher Jin. The water is gone.

Teacher Jin realized that only when people are sick can they feel the true warmth and warmth of human kindness, which is something they cannot feel at ordinary times. Not only did she remember how much she valued those rich friends and hoped to gain friendship from them, but the actions of this simple and frugal teacher Zhang who had been ignored by her at this time made her understand what she really needed. What should you care about.

This story is nothing less than a true portrayal of "rich valley, poor alley". What we should note here is that it does not mean that all rich friends are bad and all poor friends are good. What we have to do now is to get rid of the fog in front of us, and don’t blindly look only at money on the road to making friends, but to see clearly what we need. The answer is out, in fact, what we long for is just a ray of warmth.

Good friends are not afraid of poverty

24-year-old Xiaoyu is a beautiful girl. Not only are many boys pursuing her, but she also has many cheerful female friends. They often go shopping together to buy beautiful fashions and bags.

Xiaoyu has always regarded Zhengzheng as her best friend. Although Zhengzheng always dresses a little bit tacky, he never seems to understand what Chanel is, let alone what SK2 is. But her good friend is kind-hearted, helpful, and very kind to others.

There are other good friends around Xiaoyu, and there are also many people with prominent family backgrounds who are wearing famous brands from head to toe, but she has never been able to let others take their place in her heart. She knew that Zheng Zheng cared about her and treated her well like her own sister. This was better than anything else.

Xiao Yu is a cute and smart girl. She knows what people need most. Of course we need money, but not other people's money. Those who make friends just for money and power may end up with nothing.

Spend more of your time with your poor friends. No matter how rich or poor you are, friends who treat you sincerely and care about you from the bottom of your heart are the most cherished ones. This is also the most important thing. , is the precious wealth of your life.

Abandon the concept of "rich valleys, poor alleys" and treat every friend of yours with sincerity, no matter whether they are rich or poor. You must understand the meaning of the words "precious", "cherished" and "worthy". Behind poverty may be a soul shining with beauty. And one day you are in danger, it may be this beautiful and bright soul that saves you. soul.