I have the following opinions and suggestions for handling interpersonal relationships

1. Nine times out of ten, you will not win an argument.

2. Don’t force your opinions on others.

3. Be kind to others and happy yourself.

4. "Insinuations" are more convincing.

5. Use "high hat" skillfully

6. Try to get the other party to say "yes"

7. Start with something that both parties agree on.

8. Stay in moderation, don’t be pushy, and stay calm.

9. Avoid "hidden rules"

10. Make friends and win the friendship and support of most people.

The following are specific ways to improve your ability to deal with interpersonal relationships: 1. Appearance is your appearance, pay attention to neatness and elegance, and pay attention to the cultivation of inner temperament. Good appearance makes people want to get close to you. 2. Develop first-class eloquence, which in layman’s terms means being able to speak eloquently. 3. When talking to others, you should generally start with "praise". Before talking about others, you should talk about yourself first. Don't forget to criticize and encourage more. 4. When interacting with others, suffering is a blessing. It is best not to touch their interests, let alone be enemies with most people. 5. Maintain an optimistic attitude and be positive. A sunny and energetic person is the favorite of many people, and many people are willing to make friends with such a person. 6. Be grateful for your kindness. People who are grateful rarely worry about things. Others who interact with you are usually not wary of such people. 7. Don’t compete with others. Ability can only be fully reflected through long-term comprehensive performance. If you often compete with others, you will quickly become enemies with others. 8. Under normal circumstances, you should respect your leader. If there is no issue of principle, you should pay attention to his feelings, because he is the direct evaluator and supporter of your career.