Introduction: If children have good interpersonal relationships, they can build their confidence and stimulate their motivation to go to school, so it is very important for children to have good social skills. So how should parents guide their children to make friends? Don't worry, come with me now! First, the reasons for children's difficulty in making friends 1. The acquired environment causes

Children face the situation of lack of making friends, and their family structure is small, so they lose the opportunity of friendly exchanges with family relatives. Children spend their leisure time watching TV and toys, and they have no chance to interact with children and are not good at sharing with others. 2. Personality < P > Personality is the main factor affecting children's interpersonal relationships, and some children are shy and have no self-confidence; Some hope to get affirmation but can't see their own advantages; Others are too strong to share; Some can't stand setbacks.

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children have difficulties in making friends, and parents can guide them correctly. Second, parents guide friends to make friends. 1. Give choices

Although parents want their children to make friends, they never want them to cross friends. Unless the child is in danger, it is best to let the child distinguish which friendship is desirable and which friendship is not. 2. Respect children's choices < P > It is important to understand that children's social needs are different. For example, not every child needs many friends. Quantity is not equal to quality. For some children, one or two friends are enough. 3. Cultivate a wide range of interests < P > Children who are good at certain aspects have self-confidence and provide opportunities for making new friends. Friendship is based on common interests. If your children don't have many friends, cultivate their wide interests. 4, you must learn to let go

Don't be reluctant, children will never grow up without letting go. Parents can interfere with their children's socialization, but not too much, which is easy to arouse their rebellious psychology. Parents can give guidance to their children when appropriate, but they should not let them rely too much.

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Extended reading: Children's timidity depends on family education! Third, help children make friends. 1. Set an example

Parents' words and deeds will affect their children's development. Children follow your example and think that everything you do is correct. Before helping children make friends, we should change ourselves, set an example for children, and influence our children with good words and deeds. 2. Participate in the parents' dialogue

Children can participate in the parents' discussion and take the initiative to speak when they are talking at home. Let children participate in family matters, especially those involving children, and listen to their opinions more, which is conducive to children's self-confidence. 3. Take the children out more often

There is nothing to take the children around, experience the outside world, increase knowledge and cultivate a cheerful personality. Let them listen to the salespeople in the shopping mall, and listen to the laughter of other children in the amusement park. 4. Give positive energy < P > Children should be encouraged when they make a little progress under the guidance of their parents. When children make great progress, they can be given material rewards appropriately, so that children can experience the sense of accomplishment when doing the right thing. 5. Teach children to take the initiative < P > Let children learn to communicate with others actively, which is not only a sign of children's confidence, but also easier to make more friends. Not only children, but also adults, we are people who like to talk to us actively.

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