First of all, he may not want to. His age has reached a stage. You must consider getting married and having children. His family must be in a hurry. Parents, in particular, all know that the most favorite question for Chinese New Year elders is whether they are married or not. You're afraid you can't stand such a question. Parents will urge you to find a girlfriend and solve the problem yourself. I also hope that you will have a baby as soon as possible, as if this is the greatest filial piety to them.
On the other hand, he yearns for love himself. Seeing that friends and colleagues around you are in sweet love, there must be envy. I just want to take the initiative to talk to girls, hoping it will be my turn. When you are single, you have fun and loneliness. Being able to have a relative to accompany you will also feel warm when you think about it. As long as you take the first step bravely, what you are not good at will gradually become handy.
To sum up, you can infer what kind of situation he is according to his specific performance.