Say "I've heard a lot about you" when I first met you; Use "wait" to wait for guests;
The other party's letter is called "Shu Hui"; Ask someone to help say "I'm sorry";
Ask people to do things with "please"; Ask someone to give directions and use "instructions";
Praise people's views with "high praise"; Ask for forgiveness and say "tolerance";
The age of the elderly requires "longevity"; When the guests come, use "coming";
Use "goodbye" with others; Visit others with "visit";
Please don't send "leave"; Trouble others to say "I'm sorry";
Ask for convenience and say "excuse me"; Find someone to teach and say "consult";
Welcome to buy is called "patronage"; Long time no see "long time no see";
Use "loss compensation" in the middle first; Use "axe correction" to present the work.
Collection of ancient appellations
Baby: less than one year old.
Child: Two to three years old.
At first, the girl was seven years old.
First year: the boy is eight years old.
Description: According to the physiological condition, boys are eight years old and girls are seven years old. They can change teeth, take off deciduous teeth and grow permanent teeth. This is called "childhood year", "childhood year" or "childhood year".
General angle: the general term for childhood.
The year of hanging steamed buns: refers to children. In ancient times, children's hair drooped, which extended to minors. )
Yellow button: under ten years old.
Kindergarten: ten years old. (The Book of Rites? Qu Lishang: "Life is ten years old, learning." Because there were no punctuation marks in ancient Chinese characters, people intercepted the word "kindergarten" as a proxy for ten years old. )
Chai Jin Year: The girl is twelve years old.
Cardamom: The woman is thirteen years old.
Chi Xue: Fifteen. (The Analects of Confucius: Confucius said, "Nine times out of ten, I am determined to learn ...")
There is also logistics: the woman is fifteen years old. (The Book of Rites? Neze: "Women have five years in ten years. " )
Jasper's youth broke the melon: the woman was sixteen. (In the old days, scholars took the word "melon" as 2008, which was called sixteen years old, and was mostly used by women. )
Weak crown: twenty years old. (The Book of Rites? Qu Lishang: "Twenty is the weak crown." )
Tao: Female, twenty years old.
Flowers in love: female 24 years old.
Standing: thirty years old.
There is no doubt: forty years old.
Destiny: fifty years old. (The Analects of Confucius: Confucius said: "I am determined to learn five out of ten, stand at thirty, not be confused at forty, know my destiny at fifty, listen to my ears at sixty, and do what I want at seventy, without exceeding the moment." ")
The year of distinguishing right from wrong: fifty years old. ("Huainanzi"? As the old saying goes, "Apollo is fifty years old, but he has been away for forty-nine years. "It is said that there was a Apollo in the Spring and Autumn Period who often reflected on himself. At the age of 50, he knew the mistakes of the previous 49 years, so later generations called him fifty with "knowing right and wrong". )
Listening to flowers: 60 years old. Since ancient times, heavenly stems and earthly branches has been used in our country to date each other intricately, which can form sixty pairs of branches, so it is called "sixty branches" or "sixty flowers", so sixty years old is also called "the year of sixty flowers". )
Gu Xi: Seventy years old. (Du Fu's "Two Poems of Qujiang": "A total of wine and debt, life is seventy years old." )
People in their eighties and nineties. (The Book of Rites? Qu Li: "890 Yue Yao." According to this explanation, people use the word "octogenarian" to refer to people in their eighties and nineties. )
Yi: centenarians. (The Book of Rites? Qu Li: "A hundred years is a long time." It means that life lasts for a hundred years, so it is called "the year of life". Chen Yuan Hao explained: "Life is a hundred years, so it is a period; I am embarrassed that everything I eat and drink is moving. " )
1, forget to make friends-break the age and generational differences and become good friends.
2, forgetfulness-informal lack or ugliness, forming a friend who does not distinguish between you and me.
A friendship between gentlemen refers to a moral friendship, that is, friends who support each other morally.
Don't turn your back on me-a friend who has a heart in mind and has no bad feelings for me.
5. Making friends-refers to friends who have deep friendship and can share life and death.
6. Poor friends-friends you make when you are down and out.
7. Best friend-the deepest and unquestionable friend.
8, family friends-also known as family friends, world good. Refers to the friendship between the two families for generations.
9, old friends-calendar called old friends, old friends, old friends. It means an old friend with friendship.
10, a casual acquaintance-just an acquaintance, but I don't know much about it.
1 1, street friends-friends made by business means in ancient times, and later called little friends because they value profit and forget righteousness.
12, Bunon's friendship-According to custom, ordinary people make friends.
13, the friendship between the car and the hat-the friends made by the rich and the poor.
14, a friend in need-a friend in need.
15, wine and wine friendship-friends made by eating and drinking.
16, the friendship of bamboo and horse-a friend I met as a child. Also known as the total rotation angle.
17, bosom friend-a friend with deep friendship.
18, bosom friend.
19, friends of life and death-friends of life and death.
20. Acquaintances-friends who meet by accident.
2 1, a nodding acquaintance-a friend who only nods to say hello in communication without deep feelings.
22, a casual acquaintance-a dull and erratic friend.
23. Semi-acquaintances-people who have met but are not familiar with each other.
24. Friendship between eight sworn brothers and sisters in the old days.
25, the turn of the Chu Jiu-making friends is not too bad.
26, the friendship of gold and jade-precious and valuable exchanges.
In the ancient culture of China, the etiquette of making friends has different names. There are 20 common appellations for making friends, namely, friendship of cloth, friendship of Chu Jiu, friendship of heart and heart, friendship of old friends, friendship of Jin Lan, friendship of stone and gentleman, friendship of money and money, friendship of poverty and lowliness, friendship of god and stone, friendship of family and master, friendship of forgetting years, friendship of forgetting oneself and neck.
The friendship between cloth and clothes refers to the communication between ordinary people who get along equally. Language "historical records? Lian Po Lin Xiangru biography: "I thought the friendship between cloth and clothes had not been deceived. Is it a big country? "
Make friends-refers to friends who are not too poor. Out of the "Dongguan Han Ji"? Wu Youchuan: "I was ordered to give it to Chu Jiu."
Heart-to-heart friendship-refers to a friend who talks about everything and confides in his heart. From Bai Juyi's "Hundred Rhymes of Poems on behalf of the Book": "The heart and soul are inseparable, and the characters are unruly."
Old friends-refers to old friends. In the Tang Dynasty, Du Xunhe's poem "Love the Old Friends in the Mountains" said: "It is rare to sit in the mountains late at night and make friends in the sea."
Jin Lan's friendship-refers to friendship, such as brotherly friends. Language "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" Yuan Xian said, "I am with Ji and Ruan. "
Friendship between stones refers to friends whose friendship is as thick as stones. Language "Han Shu"? Biography of Han Xin: "Although I thought Hanwang was a friend of Stone, I was finally captured by Hanwang. "
A friend of a gentleman refers to a friend who values morality rather than plain appearance. The language of Zhuangzi? Yamaki: "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as good as ever. "
Pay money-refers to a friend with deep friendship. The language "Du Jing's Biography of Production": "There happens to be a solemn festival in Huijikong Store, which can be paid at first sight."
A close friend is a friend who has the same temperament and deep friendship. Language is divorced from the history of the Northern Zhou Dynasty? Li Jingchuan: "Although I live in poverty and live alone, I don't want to be hungry and cold, and I am a close friend of john young Lu Daoyuan."
A poor friend-a friend you made when you were down and out. Language "is it? Song Hongchuan: "(Emperor Guangwu) said that Hong said:' As the saying goes, it is easy to make friends when you talk expensive, and it is easy to marry when you are rich. "How about human feelings?" Hong said:' I know what I know, but I can't forget what I know. The wife of scum can't leave the court. "
Spiritual friends-refers to like-minded friends. There is a saying in Biography of the River Table: "Loneliness and son Yu Can can be described as spiritual friends, which is something that the outside world can't hear."
Stone friend-refers to a friend whose friendship is rock solid. Language "historical records? Biographies of Su Qin: "This so-called man who renounces hatred gains a stone. "
Family friends-refers to friends who have been friends for generations. Language out of the Book of Jin? He Shaochuan: "Taibao and Yi have a lifelong friendship."
Making friends-refers to friends with very strong friendship. Selected works of language? Ruan Yu's Letter to Cao Gong Sun Quan: "I disobeyed your orders and abandoned my friends. "
Forgetting to make friends-refers to making friends on the basis of ability and morality, not age and qualifications. Language "southern history? "Biography of He Xun": "A country with a weak crown raised a scholar, and Fan Yun of Nanxiang saw its countermeasures and praised them greatly, because he finally forgot the turn of the year. "
Forgotten friendship refers to a close friend who is independent of identity and appearance. Language "New Tang Book"? Meng Jiao biography: "I'm a little out of the way in Songshan, but I'm a little friendly. At first glance, Han Yu was a forgotten friend. "
Choking refers to friends who share life and death. Language "historical records? "Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "A single soldier is happy, but it's embarrassing. "
Near-death friendship means that both father and son make friends. Language "Song history? Biography of Shao bowen: "When you join the father's church, Sima Guang and others will be involved, and Guang and others will also bow down and make friends again. "
Best friend-refers to the deepest friend. From Meng Jiao's poem "Persuade to Learn": "I don't want to die, but I don't doubt my best friend."
The friendship between bamboo and horse refers to childhood friends. Language "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" Founder: "The emperor said,' Can we talk about the friendship between bamboo and horses?' "Polite address between relatives and friends.
Parents are called Gao Tang, and their parents are knee-high.
My parents simply call me dad and Yan Jia; My mother, my family.
Father's death name: My father, strictness is the first, and exams are the first.
Mother's death is called: first mother, first kindness, first *.
Brothers and sisters are called brothers, brothers, sisters and sisters.
Brother's name is Kun Zhong and brother.
Husband and wife are called husband and wife, spouse and partner.
The death of peers is called: dead brother, brother, sister, wife.
Other people's parents say: your father, your mother.
Although the brother and sister are called: your brother and sister.
Although people and children are called: your son, you Yuan.
Wife and father are called: father-in-law, father-in-law and Mount Tai.
Other people's homes are called: government, respected government.
My home is called my humble abode, my shed and my thatched cottage.
Men and women are collectively referred to as: men are called men and women are called women.
The death of five couples is called widowhood.
The teacher said: teacher, master.
Students are called: students, students. The school said: cold window.
Classmate said: Classmate.
Collection of ancient names of making friends
Since ancient times, people have had many unique names for group friends. Here are some examples for readers to remember.
Old friend: Old friend. For example, Du Xunhe, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote "Old friends in the mountains": "Sitting in the mountains at night, there are few old friends in the sea." Lu Xilin, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote "Woshan Chicken": "The beauty is exhausted, and the white wall is light."
Su Jiao: Friendship with friends during the Spring Festival. Du Fu, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote in Passing through the Old Hu Si School Book Village: "I am ashamed of Bao Shuya because of his works. I have lost everything, and my head is in tears. "
Lan Jiao: "Is it easy? On the copula: "Two people are United, but their strength is broken; Words of one heart stink like moss. Later, he used "Lan Jiao" to describe like-minded people.
Financial communication: friends who communicate with money. Warring States policy? Chu Ce Yi: "People who pay with money will give up when money fails;" People who pay with color fall in love with Chongqing. "
Heart-to-heart: bosom friends. Bao Rong in Tang Dynasty "Send Xiao Cai": My worried soul can't wake up. Since then, no one has visited the poor and sick, and the horseshoe rutting grass is green. "
Family friends: refers to people or families who have been friends since the previous generation. In the Song Dynasty, Hu Yin wrote "Left with Yuan Yuan": "The friendship in the world is thick, and the feelings at the end of the year are sparse."
Best friend: A deep friendship also refers to a friend with the deepest friendship. "Southern history? Biography of Kong Di: "Good allusions, friends with Wang Jian. "Meng Jiao, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote" Persuade Friends ":"Be straightforward and never forget Nirvana, and make friends without doubt. Life is quiet and different, so don't get tired of rules. "
Cold neck: refers to friends who are in trouble with each other. Language "historical records? "Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "A single soldier is happy, but it's embarrassing. "Historical records? Biography of Zhang Er Chen Yu: "When I was young, I gave it to Zhang Er. The two have a close relationship. "
Forgetting friends: refers to like-minded good friends regardless of age or seniority. Language "southern history? "He Xun Biography": "(He Xun) is weaker than the crown, and the country is a scholar. Fan Yun of Nanxiang saw its countermeasures and greatly appreciated them. He forgot to make friends because of his heart knot. "
Make friends with cloth and clothes: a poor friend. It also means not being proud of your position and getting along as equals as poor friends. Language "historical records? Lian Po Lin Xiangru biography: "I thought the friendship between cloth and clothes had not been deceived. Is it a big country? "
Thin friend: a friend who doesn't make friends because of influence. The Tang Dynasty poet Luo's "Ode to Water" said: "In the end, we should be kind and pay less attention to making friends."