Old man who lost his only child This is an issue that needs to be discussed about the single child policy. From the policy level, there is no explanation of this part. This kind of white-haired person giving a black-haired person is extremely painful. Our previous generation generally had more than two children, so they did not have this problem. Old people who lost their only child lost what they once had for some reason. Loneliness, fear of the future, etc. are all issues to think about. The most serious issue is the elderly care issue. For a psychological counselor, you are at most an outlet. You need resources to help him solve practical problems. The most important way to solve the psychological problems of the elderly is to listen and make friends with them, and to discover their needs through communication. For example, some elderly people live alone for a long time and are so disconnected from society that they cannot even understand what young people say. This is the need Help them keep pace with the times and ask them to go online to learn about the outside world, so that they will be in a good mood. In theory, psychological counselors can judge a person's inner feelings from his external behavior, but sometimes people The behavior is ambiguous. If you just want to communicate with them subjectively, but this kind of interaction should adhere to the principle of equality, respect, and acceptance and pay attention to the other party. The main thing is to cultivate their confidence in life, from the perspective of helping others. , helping people to help themselves is more important than anything you give them, so that they can get out of their sad predicament and move towards a new future.