For me, instead of increasing my relationship with others, it has become an annoyance. I'm sure everyone feels uncomfortable trying to find a topic. Then, just because you have a fire for 2 days, you think it would be nice to continue for so many days, but it doesn't mean that you have deep feelings with your chat partner.
At this time, I can't take up the topic comfortably and naturally. I would like to sum it up as a full-time chat, which is full-time chat: no matter how cheerful and lively you are 365 days a year, there will be times when you don't want to talk to others, and when you are sad, you will also have thoughts of not taking the initiative. It is human nature.
Some people, such as me, just want to continue the spark of the day and find someone to chat with. When they don't know what to talk to each other, they start to talk nonsense. Generally speaking, it's called mindless chatting. Maybe the other person is just perfunctory to you. After all, you all know that this is embarrassing chatting, so perfunctory is perfunctory.
what is the concept of perfunctory every day? For example, I will start to doubt my relationship with each other every day, and I will be perfunctory every day. Then this person will have no meaning to make friends, and I will take the initiative to make friends with him. This shows that we can't get along. Making friends is for happiness. I don't feel happy from him, so I should get together and leave.
Someone once said when I was chatting with him, I don't want to talk to him unless I have something serious to do. At that time, I was very angry. Chatting was mostly composed of nonsense. I wanted to talk nonsense with him, but he was so unwilling. Looking back now, how can people listen to other people's nonsense when they are busy?
Therefore, I don't want to talk embarrassing nonsense with people every day. "Find something later" is more suitable for me.