1. Enter the child's world and become a close friend of the child. A 16-year-old girl begins to have a sense of adulthood, her independence and critical thinking develop significantly, and she begins to realize the relationship between the sexes and sprouts. Needs for sex and love; increasingly frequent interpersonal relationships, eager to find friends who are consistent with one's own thoughts, feelings, and interests, but not good at combining emotions with reason. Parents must often communicate with their children, understand what their children think, like, and do, and become their children's close friends before they can enter their children's world.

2. Don’t hold prejudice against children. Parents always think that children at this age will have rebellious psychology. Parents should not try their best to suppress their children as soon as they see signs of independence. They are worried that the slightest concession will lead to their children going astray. The more intense the parent's reaction, the more the children will insist on their own opinions; if they are suppressed forcefully, not only will it be ineffective, but it will also be counterproductive.

3. Mothers must become girls’ role models. Mothers are the guides, demonstrators, and nearest bystanders in the physical and mental growth of girls. A child naturally looks for examples and references as she grows up. Mother's clothing, speech and behavior, temperament, and hobbies all have a huge and far-reaching impact on girls. Mothers should practice it with their own bodies and educate adolescent girls to regard cleanliness as beauty, decentness as beauty, and kindness as beauty, so that girls can establish correct aesthetics and personality psychology.

4. If you satisfy them appropriately, 16-year-old girls will start to pay attention to their appearance, and some of them will learn how to put on makeup as adults. Some girls will ask adults to buy some beautiful clothes or cosmetics. Adults can appropriately meet the girls' requirements at this time, but do not pamper them too much. They should let girls know that it is okay to pursue them, but they cannot exceed actual needs.