A good friend is the shade in summer, which brings you coolness. Good friends are the scenery of life. Life is not colorful without him. A good friend will comfort you when you are hurt. A good friend is someone you are willing to share with. The following is an idiom I compiled to express making friends. Welcome to reading.

A little knowledge: a little knowledge: a glance; Knowledge: acquaintances. Later used to refer to a good friend who has only met once.

Abandon old friends: abandon friends for many years and associate with new people. It means making good friends not for friendship, but for power.

Flounder: Flounder, said to have only one eye, must swim together; Connecting branch: a branch that is connected together. Metaphor is inseparable lovers and good friends.

Full house: full house. Describe the gathering of guests and friends.

Braoyan: refers to a parting relative or good friend.

Don't dare to climb: Don't dare to make good friends or be relatives with people with higher social status than yourself.

Do not abandon the old: abandon: abandon; Old friend: Old friend. Don't abandon your old friends easily.

Don't forget the old: old: old friends and old friends. Don't forget your old friends.

Abdominal pain after passing the car: I originally said that I would not go to the grave of my good friend to pay homage, and my stomach would hurt if I walked over. Used to express condolences to a dead friend.

Call each other brothers: Good friends are brothers. Describe a close relationship.

Out of the clouds into the mud: it means that once you reach the top, you will not hesitate to step into the mud with your former good friends. Metaphor is thin, the world is cold.

Turn of Chu Jiu; Pestle; A stick of rice; Mortar: stone mortar. It is a metaphor for making good friends, regardless of wealth or rank.

Visit relatives and friends: visit relatives and friends.

Acquaintance: refers to the fact that after some contests, the two sides show their efforts and finally become good friends from strangers.

Dan Yin Ren Hong: Metaphor: You must choose carefully to make good friends.

Freshwater friendship: Friendship is as clear as water. Not based on snobbish friends.

Friendship is as clear as water. Not based on snobbish friends.

Tie a crown knot: good friends report to each other.

Where is the bosom friend: where is the modest word, which means to humiliate others and feel ashamed; Bosom friend: a good friend with deep friendship. I am ashamed to be your bosom friend.

Brothers call brothers: Good friends are brothers, which means close relationship.

Moral friendship: friendship, friendship. Moral and just communication and friendship. Refers to good friends who help and support each other.

Get a bosom friend and die without complaining: bosom friend: a good friend who knows each other; Hate: regret. If you can get a bosom friend, you will have no regrets even if you die. It is hard to describe a bosom friend.

Dong Lao Xi Yan: Lao: Shrike. Metaphor lovers, good friends leave.

Peer: generally speaking, it refers to some good friends who have nothing to do but eat, drink and have fun.

Turn an enemy into a friend: turn an enemy into a friend.

A friend in trouble is a true friend: you can only see your bosom friend through the same difficulties.

A friend in need: You can only see your close friends through the same difficulties.

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Making good friends is a very interesting thing for young people who have just stepped into social life. Mr. Lu Xun also attaches great importance to making friends. In his speech commemorating the ninth anniversary of Lu Xun's death, Comrade Zhou Enlai summarized "making friends widely" as one of the four characteristics of Lu Xun's life. What experience does Lu Xun have in making friends? We try to put forward the following suggestions from his works and friends' memoirs for young friends to learn.

First, the relationship between good friends should be based on the revolutionary cause of the same party. Water is active, trees have roots, and making good friends should also talk about "foundation". If the basis of making good friends is only self-interest, in order to trade with each other, there will only be hidden and ugly interests between good friends, not to mention sincere feelings and true friendship. Because of the interests of the people and the revolutionary cause, Mr. Lu Xun made extensive contacts with the people and made friends. In order to develop revolutionary literature and art, he made friends with many like-minded writers and comrades, and cooperated in running journals. In order to promote the development of woodcut in China, he became good friends with Cargill, a Japanese revolutionary woodcutter, and invited Cargill to hold a seminar to teach woodcut knowledge. The relationship between Lu Xun and his good friends is also gradually close in the process of pursuing the same cause. The so-called "like-minded" in making friends is the most important thing.

Second, treat friends with a "harmonious" attitude. Lu Xun is extremely modest, sincere and kind to his good friends. Making friends with good friends, he has never shown "extraordinary spirit". He is talkative and sociable. He never puts on airs when talking to his good friends, and often talks and laughs. Even if you are in contact with young people, you are willing to make a joke and make people feel approachable. Once, a young friend asked him why he ignored his long hair. He said humorously, "I'm a little scared to see a sharp razor for haircut." Then he smiled himself. He corresponded with his good friends, talked about business and cared about the private affairs of some good friends. Children need toys, children need books when they grow up, spring clothes in spring and warm clothes in winter. This concern makes a good friend feel twice as warm. Xu Shoushang, a good friend of Lu Xun, said: "Lu Xun always uses a sincere and loving attitude in studying, doing things, treating others and making friends." Comrade Zhou Enlai pointed out in particular: "Lu Xun's position is closely related to the revolution and stands with the people. Lu Xun's attitude is cruel to the enemy, strict with himself and kind to good friends. " Only by treating friends with a "harmonious" attitude can we talk about mutual respect of good friends. And mutual respect is the minimum condition for the continuous development of good friends.

Third, it is a natural obligation to help friends and make good friends. Lu Xun enthusiastically helped his schoolmates when he was a student, and helped his colleagues' good friends after taking part in the work. When his good friend Lin Song faced the unemployment crisis, he took the initiative to find a job for Lin Song. When some fellow villagers "complained about poverty and dropped out of school", he gave generously and gave a helping hand. He often introduces articles to his good friends, and when other good friends ask him to write articles, he is responsive. Sometimes, some trivial things of good friends are taken as their own business. Lai Shaoqi recalled that Lu Xun "personally collected the money for us, went through the remittance formalities, and instructed how to sign and seal the back of the money order ..." His behavior was very touching. Once his good friend is slandered, he always uses his quick wits and resolutely fights back. In order to rescue Qu Qiubai, he ran around to raise money and even asked Cai Yuanpei to help. Lu Xun's enthusiasm for his friends won the love of his good friends. In the "March 18th Massacre", Lu Xun's name was also blacklisted by reactionaries. It was with the help of his good friends that he dodged a bullet again and again.

Fourth, be kind to friends and treat yourself as a rule of making friends. Under the white terror, Lu Xun's own safety is difficult to guarantee, but when Qu Qiubai took refuge in his home, he managed to rent a Japanese-style building for him to live in for Qu Qiubai and his wife. He bought pen and ink, together with violets given to him by others, and personally delivered them to Qu Qiubai's residence. Lu Xun's "being kind to friends" is highly respected. Even in daily life, he gives honor, enjoyment and kindness to his good friends. On weekdays, the food is very casual, but when a good friend comes, he always tries to put on the strong flavor of the food; Even if it is a cigarette, it will be given to a good friend and smoked by himself.

Fifth, communication is an important tool for making good friends. Letters can freely express their views and feelings about people and things, and are an important tool for good friends to exchange ideas and feelings. Lu Xun cherishes this tool. He answered almost every letter to his good friends, and there was never a backlog. 1934 wrote 73 letters and communicated with young woodcuts. According to statistics, Lu Xun wrote more than 5,600 letters in his life. Until ten hours before his death, he didn't want to ask others to write, so he had to write a note himself. Mr. Lu Xun, who often communicates with him, said in an article: "Every page in the letter is saturated with Mr. Wang's precious hard work. At that time, he not only wrote letters, wrote letters, posted stamps, sent emails and other details, but also bowed with his hands. "

Finally, Lu Xun paid great attention to sticking to principles when making good friends. He said, it's good to make good friends. "But liars are shielded, butchers have helpers, and they are also called' good friends'." He "criticizes all the friends and things he looks down upon, and doesn't let go of anything wrong." Even the best friend in his early years blames him mercilessly if he makes a mistake in his later years. For example, Lu Xun had a close relationship with Lin Yutang in his early years, but later Lin Yutang changed course and advocated helping leisure literature and art. Lu Xun did not yield and criticized again and again until he broke up with him. Adhering to the principle will distinguish it from "friendship", "brotherhood" and "good friends with good weather" in small circles.