Translation of vernacular Chinese: A friendship between gentlemen originates from knowing each other. In this understanding, we are not demanding, compulsive, jealous or clingy. So in the eyes of ordinary people, it is as light as white water.
2, make friends to vote, cut the rules. -"Thousand Characters" Zhou Xingsi in the Southern and Northern Dynasties
Vernacular translation: To make friends, we should be like-minded, learn from each other and encourage each other in character.
3. People who pay with money will pay for it; Be friends with color and fall in love with Chongqing —— Warring States policy during the Warring States period
Vernacular translation: friends made with money, when the money is spent, friendship will come to an end; Friends made by beautiful women will become sour when they get older.
4. People who yearn for Tao have fewer friends, while those who pursue profit have more friends. -Wang Fu of the Han Dynasty, "A Thousand Commanders Turn to the Duke"
Vernacular translation: There are few friends who aspire to the right path, but there are many like-minded companions who compete for fame and fortune.
There are three friends who benefit and three friends who suffer. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends are easily broken, friends are soft, and friends are easily lost. -Confucius in the Analects of Confucius in the Spring and Autumn Period
There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make honest friends, honest friends and knowledgeable friends. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter but hurt others behind their backs, and people who are good at rhetoric. Choosing friends is a science. Stay away from bad friends and walk with good friends, and your life will be more exciting.
6, Lu Yao knows horsepower, and people will see it for a long time. -"Shilin Guangji" Song Chen Yuan Jing
Translation of Vernacular Chinese: Knowing the power of horses, we should take the road of Wan Li and the road of Wan Li. Metaphor after a long test to see the quality of people's hearts, true and false friendship.