Go and pick up the children from school. Ask the kindergarten teacher how things are going recently.

The teacher said that she was too cunning recently, and she was not as good as before.

I looked at the smelly boy who rolled on the ground with a bad smile on his face, and my mind showed that when he first started nursery school, he always huddled in the corner alone and dared not take part in anything.

I said with a smile, indicating that he began to relax, not as nervous as before. It's good.

The teacher is a little surprised, which is true. I am in a good mood now.

well, I think it's okay.

The boy took my hand and skipped away like a mud mountain man.

2

"Our rice cakes are all good, but we are too timid."

this is what grandma often talks about.

"Mom, what do you think of him?"

"where is good? Smart, you see that his memory is so good that he can learn everything as soon as he learns! "

Grandma looks proud.

that's right, he is particularly good at learning. Because he is a sensitive child, he has a strong perception of things and can calm down and concentrate on a job, so he learns things quickly and remembers them well.

"Mom, do you know that little girl in their class?"? The one who is particularly lively and courageous. "

"I know, that girl is very lovable."

"hmm. But, oh, my grandmother is also complaining to me that her concentration is not good and she can't sit still and play with a thing. "

"so?"

Yes, every child has his unique characteristics. In this feature, there will be some parts that we like and some parts that don't seem to like so much, which we should bear.

3

Recently, I heard a theory, which came from the Elite Day Class by Wan Weigang. It mentioned a psychologist's method to guess the popularity of a child: let the mother of a 5-year-old child talk about her child for 5 minutes.

If a mother's face is full of happiness when she talks about her child, and she uses positive and warm words, then the child will get along well with her classmates when she is 7 years old.

On the contrary, if the mother is full of complaining and negative energy, then the child is likely to be an unwelcome person.

did it touch you a little? How you feel about your child determines your child's communicative achievement.

As a practitioner of parenting science and a person who often studies parenting issues, I often observe the interaction between some mothers and children in public.

Those children who make people feel unreasonable when they open their mouths, or even look angry, just need to wait a little longer, and they will be compared with a swearing mother and such yelling:

"How many times have I said it?" "You really deserve a beating" ...

4

Actually, I understand that mothers who can't control their emotions are overwhelmed.

take the baby to find a hotel for a short vacation at the weekend. There is a meeting for the work of the course for the time being, and I have a meeting with my team friends at 1: 3. By 1: 2, the smelly boy is still bargaining with me in bed.

"Mom, please tell me another story.

mom, let's talk for a moment first.

Mom, guess what color my SUV is? "

...

(Guess your sister, I have work to do. Are you fucking sleeping or not? )

Hold your horses, hold your horses, why don't children want to sleep? Why do you stick to me so much? Why are you chatting with me?

I think I've been working too much at work recently, and I really neglected him. The little guy is trying to make up for it. When I was at home, he was as happy as a madman, pulling me to play this and that, and always saying "Mom, I love you".

at the thought of this, my heart is already soft.

looking at the treasure meekly, "honey, mom really wants to tell you another story, but now we are going to sleep. Mom will sing a song for you first, and then we will play together after the nap, okay? "

in an instant, I fell asleep.

a gentle mother always has magic.

5

I often say, why should we encourage mothers to get better? Because in a family, as long as the mother is smooth, the child will be fine, the husband will be fine, and the whole family will be fine.

As the most important person in the family, what is the attitude of the international in the eyes of a mother?

I think children are cunning and difficult to take care of, husbands and mothers-in-law don't give help, work can never be finished, and my life is hopeless. Many people are like this.

it's actually true to think so, because this is the status quo.

But there are always people who are not like this. There are always people who have different internationals in their eyes.

A child's cunning can become a beloved. Children's sensitivity and slow fever can also be an advantage. You know, the child's inappropriate expression is because he is getting your attention.

The people and things that make you unhappy, the demons that are entangled in your chest will naturally fade away.

Think back to the people around you who feel happiest. What are their gestures?