There are many straight men who can't speak their minds and have low emotional intelligence. Boys and girls like completely different things, so it's difficult to talk. Warm men with high emotional intelligence will pick up words, know how to listen and appreciate each other. If you like him, be more patient, guide the other person to talk about your favorite topic, and get used to it slowly, so that they can be together for a long time. Personally, girls are more popular with boys because they are careless, so there is no pressure to communicate with boys, even if they say something wrong. If you face a person you don't like, it is a kind of torture to speak hard and awkward. You can't stay for a minute. Of course, don't blame each other. Whether to continue depends on how much you like him and how acceptable he is. I hope I can help you.
Knowledge expansion:
Blind date is a traditional way of making friends, usually introduced by relatives, friends or matchmakers, so that men and women can get to know each other with a view to establishing a love relationship. Blind date has different forms and rules in different cultures, but its purpose is to help single men and women find suitable partners.
In the process of blind date, men and women will agree on a suitable place and time, such as a coffee shop, restaurant or park, for face-to-face communication. In the process of communication, both parties will know each other's family background, work, personality, hobbies and other information, so as to judge whether the other party meets their own mate selection criteria.
There are also many precautions for blind date:
First of all, be sincere and polite, don't brag too much, and don't criticize each other.
Secondly, we should pay attention to gfd, dress appropriately and maintain a good image. Thirdly, we should prepare some topics in advance to avoid silence and embarrassment.
Finally, after the blind date, both parties can express their gratitude to each other and their willingness to continue their contacts by phone or text message.
As a traditional way of making friends, blind date still has certain influence in modern society. Especially in some conservative families and cultures, blind date is still the main way to find a partner. However, with the popularity of the Internet and social media, more and more young people begin to meet new friends through online channels, and the influence of blind date is gradually weakening. However, blind date, as a way of making friends with historical origins, still has its unique value and charm.