Excellent people, you are not in the same circle as them. Sometimes it's not that your connections can't reach the big coffee, but that even if you enter this circle, you can't become good friends with him. For example, if a primary school student goes to college, you can play games with others. If you compete with others for a major, you can only be funny. Only by improving your cognitive ability and constantly optimizing yourself can you have access to the core social circle and a wider network of contacts and resources. Some people will say, why do excellent people have no friends? We don't deserve to be their friends? Are they that noble? Actually, it's not. It's just that true friendship needs mutual appreciation and equal strength. Only in this way can friendship develop healthily. Buffett can be friends with Munger and Gates. Is it possible that he came all the way to be my friend? Excellent people think that you are not good enough to enter their circle, because true friendship can grow up with each other and both sides can achieve each other. I hope Buffett can achieve me, but I have no other talent except to be Buffett's personal fitness trainer (alas). Saying so much is actually that excellent people think that you are not good enough to enter their circle. The better the circle, the more you need to compete for personal strength. People in this circle care more about the cost of time and resources. Adult friendship is different from childhood friendship, because the adult world pays attention to parity, and the strength matching will last long.