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College students would rather play games than socialize, and still prefer to be single. I think there are two main reasons, personality and family. Therefore, I summarized the following three types of people formed by the above reasons:

1. Take college students from native families as an example. They may be more rational. They want to make some money and start a family. , some deep-rooted ideas for them are the rationality that supports their not falling in love. This only rationality has been suppressing their desire to fall in love. But they lack a sense of security, so they become addicted to games and use games in the virtual world as their dependence and sustenance. However, they are unwilling to confide in other people in real life, and they are unwilling to believe each other prematurely. I am willing to give my sincerity easily and have a sensitive mind. They are also easily dependent on others, but before relying on others, that person must first give them a sense of security. Therefore, they regard making friends through playing games as virtual, unrealistic, and unstable. So they were restrained by their rationality.

2. Those with stronger personalities, higher requirements for their partners, a bit sapiosexual, simple-minded, and more obedient to their parents. Their parents said that they should try not to fall in love in college and focus on studying. Be serious, and then obey what is told. The typical image of a good student and a good girl is the independent woman we often hear. They may play games with each other for social purposes rather than truly wanting to get to know each other. They may just want to relax physically and mentally.

3. There are also some people who are less confident, passive, dull, and have a more reserved and reserved personality. They will not deliberately express their love for others. They are more likely to be shy when they meet someone they like because they are not like the environment they grew up in. Related: I have never been taken seriously by my family or school classmates since I was a child. I have always obeyed and been the one given orders. I feel depressed inside, so I want to find my own value and sense of existence through games. According to this method It is often easy to lose oneself, which means it is easy to be PUA. They can easily become vassals in love, because their ego is very weak, which means that their sense of security is very weak, and security requires establishing contact with the outside world. When a person with a weak security mechanism interacts with people and things outside They are prone to overreaction when approached. Unfortunately, I am the third type. I am also trying hard to change myself and build confidence in myself. The only thing you can do is to cherish every day now and don't think too much.