In this situation, many women will default to one truth: it is natural for their husbands to compensate themselves for mental damage. The actual situation is this. Let us first take a look at the relevant legal provisions:

The relevant provisions of my country’s Marriage Law: “The man shall not file for divorce during the woman’s pregnancy or within one year after giving birth. The woman shall not file for divorce. This does not apply to those who file for divorce, or if the people's court deems it necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce. "This provision is a special protection for women who are pregnant or one year after giving birth in order to protect the legitimate rights and interests of women and children. Therefore, if the man cheats on the woman while she is pregnant, the woman can file for divorce.

Therefore, if the woman does not want a divorce, then even if the husband cheats, she still cannot be single immediately and still has to bear the legal responsibility of taking care of the wife and raising the children.

And if the woman wants to divorce, there is no doubt that in this case the woman will obtain custody of the child, and the court will also give a certain degree of sympathy and appropriate care, but the man does not necessarily have to compensate.

According to Article 46 of the "Marriage Law", if one of the following circumstances leads to divorce, the party without fault has the right to request damages: (1) Bigamy; (2) The spouse has a divorce with another person Living together; (3) Carrying out domestic violence; (4) Abusing or abandoning family members.

Therefore, the man needs to live with others for a long time to be eligible for compensation. This condition does not differ because the woman is pregnant. The twins’ dad tells you the definite answer: divorce. I think this way, a man, a responsible man should share more, take care of, and accompany his wife more when she is pregnant.

A woman is willing to give you a child, which is the happiest thing for you. Only a husband who loves his wife will know how much pain he has to suffer to give birth to a child. Take labor pain as an example: medical pain Divided into 10 levels. Labor pain is paroxysmal pain, which is unbearable and belongs to level 10 pain. I was also lucky enough to "experience" it once. I couldn't stand it at level 5. It's hard to be pregnant in October and I still need to go through such hardships, so we say that mothers are great. The woman who loves herself, the mother of her children.

Even a caesarean section requires eight layers of stitches on the belly. Once the anesthesia wears off, it will still hurt for 1-3 days. It will also leave permanent scars. Shouldn't we love such a woman? Why does cheating still occur? The answer is that he doesn't care for you, doesn't love you, and is not worthy of your trust for life. Some people may say to be patient for the sake of the children. Give him a chance, he's just confused. Wrong, how will such a father educate his children and be a role model for his children in the future? Do he have to be like his father in the future?

On July 28, 2019, Wen Zhang posted on Weibo announcing the end of his 11-year marriage with Ma Yili: "I love Yili. We walked together halfway, and we parted ways. The rest of our lives are long, and we are still waiting for you with family affection." Soon. , Ma Yili also posted: "You and I have loved each other deeply, worked hard, and achieved each other's achievements. This relationship has regrets, but there is no right or wrong. From now on, everyone will be happy. ?"

In this marriage In the story, Ma Yili is the victim. Although a long time has passed since that incident, it is still painful in Ma Yili's heart. It is difficult to heal and the wound will never be completely healed. So even if you reluctantly forgive him and give him a chance, how many more years can you live? It's better to cut it off early. Start your own new life. Find a good father for your child.

A piece of advice for all parents: Although falling in love is easy, marriage is not. When it comes to marriage, whether they are a couple who have just stepped into the marriage or have gone through ups and downs, a marriage will be happy only if the two of them work together and manage it with heart.

If your husband cheated on you during pregnancy, you can use the following methods to negotiate for divorce

According to the relevant provisions of my country's "Marriage Law": "The woman has cheated on her during pregnancy or childbirth." Within one year, the man is not allowed to file for divorce.

This does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or if the people's court deems it necessary to accept the man's request for divorce. "This provision is to protect the legitimate rights and interests of women and children, and is a special protection for women who are pregnant or one year after giving birth.

If you ask for a divorce, the two of you can negotiate with each other until both parties agree. When you are divorced and have no objection to the division of property, you can go to the local Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for divorce registration to achieve the purpose of divorce during pregnancy. If the pregnant woman requests a divorce, please refer to the following procedures for divorce by agreement:

Apply. .

For divorce by agreement, both parties must apply in person at the marriage registration authority in the place where one party has his or her registered permanent residence, and shall not entrust others to represent him or her. When applying, each party must present their household registration certificate, resident identity certificate, and certificate issued by their unit or village or residents' committee. Letter of introduction, divorce agreement, marriage certificate, etc., so that the registration and management authority can identify the parties and determine their jurisdiction.

The marriage registration and management authority is accepting the divorce of the parties. After the registration application, it should be reviewed within one month. During the review process, you should fully understand the contents of the agreement, especially whether the intention of both parties to request divorce is true, child support, help for the spouse's life difficulties, and division of property and debts. Whether the handling and other matters are appropriate.

Registration.

After review, the marriage registration authority shall register those who meet the conditions for divorce, issue a divorce certificate, and cancel the marriage certificate; If the legal conditions are not met, the reasons for non-registration should be stated in writing. The relationship between husband and wife will be terminated from the time the parties receive the divorce certificate. If one party to the divorce fails to perform their obligations in accordance with the divorce agreement, the other party may file a lawsuit with the People's Court. File a civil lawsuit.

Cancellation

If the party applying for divorce commits fraud and defrauds the divorce registration, the marriage registration authority shall cancel the divorce registration and declare the divorce to be invalid. The divorce certificate will be withdrawn and the parties will be fined less than 200 yuan. If the parties believe that they meet the conditions for divorce, they can apply for administrative reconsideration in accordance with the law. If they are not satisfied with the reconsideration decision, they can file an administrative lawsuit in accordance with the law.

Maybe you will. I think my method is a bit extreme, but it is practical and useful to you.

Let’s go our separate ways and find our own future.

Generally, there is a chance that a "husband" will cheat on a woman during pregnancy. This is not the case in all families, but it does not occur in a large number of families.

Why does this problem occur? ?

1. Men's needs. Women are 10 months pregnant, which is almost half a year. Some lustful men can't bear their physical needs and go out to solve their personal problems and release their mental pressure.

Men are "lower body" animals, and men who cheat and take advantage of their kidneys have strong sexual needs. When women are pregnant, they see beautiful things and videos that they should not see. , there will be fantasies, impulses, thoughts of cheating, and "actual actions".

2. Mental stress. During a woman's pregnancy, men consider the child and generally do not provoke pregnant women. Due to a series of problems such as pressure at work or family conflicts. As a result, men are very stressed and have no one to talk to or vent to. At this time, people who are mentally empty can easily find spiritual sustenance and choose to cheat.

3. External temptation. During this period, there is little communication between the husband and wife, and there is a lack of communication. Naturally, the relationship with the opposite sex becomes closer, and as time goes by, sparks will inevitably fly, and cheating is inevitable. There is also the fact that men have a lot of social activities and often go to hotels, hotels, bars, KTV and other entertainment venues. The surrounding environment becomes an inducement for cheating. "If you don't want to go into the water, someone will pull you into the water."

What to do? How to avoid this happening?

Couples can consult a doctor about pregnancy-related knowledge. With the doctor's advice, a proper couple life can ease and strengthen the relationship between the couple. Don't just refuse, but also pay attention to the other person's discomfort. Communicate each other's feelings and comfort each other.

Women should suppress their emotions, communicate more with their husbands, and communicate regularly to shorten the emotional distance. Husbands and wives should live in harmony, keep abreast of each other's temperament ideas, and prevent men from "going astray."

When doing something, first find out the reason. Just like when you are sick, you should not take random medicines. You must prescribe the right medicine, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort.

I can answer this question for you. I got divorced when my child was half a year old. It has been more than 20 years now and there are no problems. My son is fine and I am fine too. It’s not that scary!

I believe that 50% of people will say that I will divorce him immediately! If it were me, I wouldn't let him get away with it. Why are you living happily outside while I'm ten months pregnant? I want to give birth to a healthy child and torture you! The reason why a man cheats on his wife during pregnancy is mostly due to physiological needs. Once you give birth to the baby, he won’t have time to think about that. When you come back from get off work, give him the baby and it doesn’t matter what he does. Do it, you can torture him day and night anyway! When you think of this, sisters, are you thinking too much? During pregnancy, don’t have too much depression, as it will bring harm to the fetus!

When you are pregnant in ten months, you have to experience pregnancy vomiting in the first trimester, various screenings in the second trimester, difficulty moving and breathing in the late pregnancy, etc. However, as a mother, as long as she thinks about the baby in her belly, she is filled with joy. Love far exceeds all bitterness!

A lucky mother will have the support of her family and extra care from her husband! However, there are some mothers who have to face the cheating of their husbands during pregnancy, which is undoubtedly a fatal blow. Expectant mothers are sad about their husbands' insincerity and will feel hesitant. If they do not handle it properly, they will harm the baby who is about to be born!

In fact, as a new generation of women, not only are they financially independent, but they are also very independent mentally. Some modern women are even better than many men. Therefore, if your husband really cheats during pregnancy, Personally, I support the legal approach. No matter what the outcome is, divorce, you cannot give in. As long as a man is forgiven for cheating once, he will cheat a second time, or even more!

Of course, if it is just a mental affair and you have a good attitude towards admitting your mistake, you can still consider it as appropriate and give your child a complete family!

During pregnancy, mothers will be more sensitive and easily magnify problems. I hope mothers can participate in more social activities, make more friends to chat, distract nervous emotions, and stop thinking wildly! What would you do if your husband cheated on you during pregnancy?

Giving birth to children is a woman’s bounden duty and the greatness of motherhood.

The reason why it is great is that the hardships and risks involved cannot be understood or replaced by men.

Cheating is hurtful, and cheating during pregnancy is even more hurtful. But objectively speaking, due to the particularity of women's body, physiology, and psychology at this stage, as well as the influence of the general environment and microclimate, if men lack concentration and cultivation, and have weak self-control abilities, it is easy for them to go into trouble. Therefore, this special period is the stage when men have the highest probability of cheating.

After an affair occurs, women are shocked, angry, sad, and all kinds of emotions come flooding in. The pain can be imagined. Under this kind of emotion, the client will deny his previous "emotions", question whether he really loves himself, try to find out the reasons for his cheating, explore whether he has true feelings, and worry about whether he will habitually cheat in the future? Various details and pictures come one after another... These reactions indicate that the person involved is in a state of derailment traumatic stress.

At this time, the parties concerned should not rush to take action. First, evaluate the foundation of their marriage to see if their feelings for each other are still there, and then explore whether they are responsible for the cheating, and more importantly, see if he has any responsibility. Sincerity without repentance, and acts of repentance and reparation.

Faced with the occurrence of infidelity, you cannot just leave it, let alone just accommodate it. For those who are morally corrupt, have bad conduct, and have no repentance, staying away from him means staying away from being hurt again. And for those who are greedy for a moment, are able to stop at the brink, and have the heart to repent and make amends, to forgive them is to forgive ourselves.

I don’t know if you have ever thought about it: giving the other person a chance to change is not giving yourself and your children a chance to be happy?

Of course, forgiveness cannot solve all problems. . The most important thing is that we need to get over the pain and recognize the marital problems reflected behind the infidelity. For example, when you mentioned "I scolded him and he actually talked back", it reflects the original problems in your communication. problem. Then actively seek solutions and make infidelity an opportunity for the couple to grow together.

It depends! If you learn from someone else but your husband never admits it and is as good to his wife as ever, it can be regarded as gossip, but you should remind him to keep a distance when getting along with the opposite sex to avoid rumors! If you catch me having an affair at home, you will get divorced immediately! As for taking the initiative to catch an adulterer because of outsiders' words, it is absolutely not advisable, unless you want to get a divorce and find evidence for property distribution!

The article about Ma Yili’s pregnancy was derailed.

When a man cheats on a woman during pregnancy, he may feel that he has physical needs and just wants to vent. It's physical infidelity.

But during pregnancy, women are in an extraordinary stage, which is extremely harmful. At this time, women can only save themselves and adjust themselves. They are not allowed to harm their own children. They are innocent and wait for the life in their belly. As the child is born and grows over time, the child's ideas may change with life, and the degree of persistence in acceptance will become stronger and his own choice will be clearer.

Happy, relaxed life, comfortable mood, healthy body and mind.