How do you know she hasn't found another one in these years? Did I forget all about you? Especially women, they have a wide circle of friends around them. There may be a lot of spare tires waiting for you, for fear that you won't find another one after breaking up. Everyone has a post-breakup experience, and one of the stages is the cooling-off period. Generally, the cooling-off period is after too many disputes, which is compared with cold violence or has a unique contrast. However, many people are always bored by each other because they are impatient and unwilling to admit their mistakes. It is the easiest way to get back together after breaking up and let your ex take the initiative to contact you, so you missed the opportunity to save your love.
After breaking up, everyone will feel pain. Many people think that the source of this pain is the other party, and the separation from the other party has caused pain. So they want to seek relief, call and send messages, and expect to get a reply from each other. In fact, the root cause of your pain is not to separate yourself, but the objective fact that you don't accept separation. You can either give your emotions to the other person for control, and he will reply. You can be happy all day, he ignores you, and you are desperate.
Don't pester ta, quit the global ta. After the end, your first reaction was to stay, but maybe you were too anxious and chose a way to make the other person tired and pester you again. If the other person leaves, it is a denial to you. If you struggle again, you will always make the other person very tired. Saving feelings is actually a long and arduous whole process. It is suitable to separate from each other at the beginning of the breakup and give each other a cooling-off period.
In fact, it is good to be rational with each other. You are always too emotional. Do you know how long it takes to get back together after a breakup? There are so many ways for your ex to contact you actively.