Especially in today's society, people are busy socializing and want to make more useful contacts, which requires us to learn how to meet people, otherwise a careless friend may bring you a lot of trouble.
Today, I will share with you four tricks to help you judge whether people around you can make deep friends and whether they are trustworthy:
First of all, on the surface.
When we look at a person, everyone may not be familiar with him at first, so we should first look at him superficially, keep a certain distance from him, and then slowly and carefully observe him to see some performances of this person in daily life, such as whether he is sincere to people and responsible for things.
Look at whether he is serious about everything he does in his daily life, and you will know whether this person is really doing things for you, the company and the public, and you will know whether this person is worth making friends. If this person is sincere to others and loyal to the company in his daily behavior, no matter his predecessor or his predecessor, his behavior style is similar, then this person is worthy of making friends, and you can trust such a person.
Second, is there any responsibility?
There are also many strangers in the society who are easy to get along with and can help you solve problems actively, but they are basically things that can be solved easily without blowing off dust, but when they encounter real difficulties, their bad personalities and qualities are easily exposed.
Loyal friends can take the initiative to stand with you when you are in trouble and take the initiative to take responsibility. Such a friend is a good friend worthy of deep friendship, otherwise it will only hurt you because of the sweet words of some strangers and make you regret it.
Third, are you willing to borrow money?
In society, you can find that if you want to achieve great success in your career, you really need the help of your friends, because when you start a company to achieve your career, you borrow money from your friends. If your friends can give generously and help you, it shows that the other party is not stingy, but some friends like to take advantage of it and are selfish, even if they have a little money, they are not willing to take the initiative. This is a big problem with their character and quality. At the critical moment, you can't trust them at all. If you get along with them for a long time, you will feel that it is easy to lose, and they are very negative, so don't wait until you lose.