Foreword

In rural areas, the old people often say that "the poor don't leave their relatives, and the rich don't return home", which is a classic, and people have to think about how to grasp the discretion in human relations.

It is said that modern society is full of materialistic desires, and sometimes it is the same in rural areas.

From some old sayings in rural areas, I think the society is very realistic, not only in cities, but also in simple rural areas.

In rural areas, the old people often say that "poor people don't leave their relatives, rich people don't return home", which is a classic, and people have to think about how to grasp the discretion in human relations.

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The so-called "poverty does not leave relatives" literally means that if you are poor, don't visit relatives.

It also implies that poor people will be unpopular and coldly treated when they visit relatives, and relatives will think that you are an excuse to visit relatives, which will bring trouble and poverty.

when people have no money, they are just like withered leaves hanging on the branches, leaving no one to care about them. There is no way to borrow money, no way to make friends, and friends walk around.

when people are down and out, it's like living in a dark cage, suffering from the cold world and feeling sorry for themselves. Human feelings are like paper, and Zhang Zhang is shallow, and relatives avoid walking.

Although people are poor, they don't have to be short-sighted. If people are poor, the correct way is to save themselves, try to get out of the predicament by your own efforts, and don't always think about the help of others.

Many times it is still difficult to ask for help from others. Some people will not ask for help until they are cornered. The more difficult they are, the more calm they should be, the more they should rely on themselves and the less trouble they have to their relatives.

That's why the old saying goes, "Poor people don't leave their relatives".

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Literally, if you are rich, don't go back to your hometown.

Rich people will face the situation that relatives and fellow villagers in their hometown borrow money and ask for help. If you help, it's hard to be satisfied if you help more or less. If you don't help, it's even more offensive.

When you have the money to go back to your hometown, everyone's first reaction is not to celebrate your good fortune and get rich, but what they must think in their hearts is: You have come back to ridicule our incompetence, right? Moreover, the more you explain and give gifts, the more you feel looked down upon.

There are many self-made people now. If life is better, many people will come to ask for help. Whether to help or not will bring trouble and unnecessary disputes, and they will be in a dilemma.

That's why old people say, "Rich people don't go home".

"If you are poor, you won't leave your relatives, and if you are rich, you won't go back to your hometown." If you have money and wine, you have many brothers. How can you meet anyone in an emergency? Fair-weather friends have a long history, but no money and no power.

an old saying tells the social reality!

people who are poor and visit relatives are bound to be rejected; When people return home rich, they will be alienated. The indifference of family is the most unbearable.

Some people may be too poor to love the rich, but others still need to be self-reliant and self-reliant. When we are not doing well, we should work hard and accumulate wealth and strength.

When you are rich, you are modest and low-key, don't despise people who are worse off than yourself, and when you help others, you insist on saving the poor, so as not to be thankless.

People often say that people who are hungry should not eat onions, which will burn their hearts. Don't leave your relatives when you are poor.

Maybe some people just listen to this sentence as a joke, but this is today's society, where human feelings are cold and warm and the world is cold.

do you think so?