I chose tolerance

To tolerate others is to be kind to yourself. Resentment can only make our souls live in darkness; tolerance can make our souls free and liberated.

This week, I invited a few classmates to go out to play. I put on the purple travel shoes that my father bought for me and went out energetically.

Just when I was talking to my classmates During the run, I fell down and soiled my travel shoes. My classmates Shi Yaqi and Wang Chenqian thought I was angry. However, I was not angry, but smiled. I said to Shi Yaqi and Wang Chenqian, "It's okay." Yes, if a person cares about this little thing, then he will spend his life in darkness. Let's continue playing." They looked at me, very strange. Yes, what's the point of making trouble again? My mother often told me that when our hearts choose tolerance for ourselves, we gain more freedom. Whether facing friends or enemies, we should give them a sweet smile. Tolerance can make friends, but it will only make us more and more lonely and lose the opportunity to make friends. On the contrary, when you use an open-minded and bright heart to tolerate the faults of others, you will have more friends. Let us be more tolerant, make life more relaxed and happy, let us have more friends, and let our souls get more comfort.

Although this incident is insignificant, when I think about it, I feel proud, because through this incident, my friends are even more impressed with me, and I feel that I have grown up a lot all of a sudden.

Choose Surrender

A few days ago, I was always looking for an answer: Why was there only one of the two fish I just bought a few days ago? Could it be that he turned into a god and flew away, so depressed! This morning I was going to school for the Olympiad. When I was changing my shoes, I found a small, dry thing. I picked it up and saw that it was the angel fish. It jumped far enough! Poor fish, you are just like me, but I am much luckier than you. I have lost my original ability to resist, and now I can only quietly imitate. Poor fish, you are just like me, but I am luckier than you. Much, I have lost my original ability to resist, and now I can only study quietly, but you sacrificed your life for freedom! Lu Xun once said: "If you don't explode in silence, you will destroy in silence!" I told my mother this sentence, and I said that people should have a spirit of resistance! My mother's answer was: Yes, you can resist, but have you ever thought about the consequences of your resistance? Mom left these words and went into the kitchen. Yes, I understand that I cannot resist. The result of resisting will not only be bruises on me, but maybe my family will be hit even harder. Therefore, I had no choice but to surrender and choose to be a good student. When I saw your withered body, I wanted to cry, but I just couldn't. Why can't you learn to surrender? Look at the other goldfish in the goldfish tank. Isn’t it still living well? Sometimes, while we are resisting, we need to consider a lot, and we need to consider the consequences of our resistance. Sometimes, I have to admit we need to surrender! !

Choose happiness

There is no distinction between happiness and sorrow in the world. Happiness and sorrow are relative terms. Only with happiness can you know sorrow; only with sorrow can you know happiness. Happiness and sadness often occur interactively, because we always have difficulties to face in the next step, so there will be no permanent happiness in our hearts. But it is precisely because of those problems that you will have the pleasure of solving them.

It's like without the waiting of the night, there would be no joy at dawn; without the experience of hunger, there would be no sense of comfort after a satisfied appetite; without hard work, there would be no tired fruits. The same goes for happiness and sadness, there are no clear boundaries.

Happiness and sorrow are originally a pair of brothers. The only difference lies in your choice, just like summer and winter. If you choose summer and think that summer will bring you happiness, then you will always look forward to the arrival of summer. However, winter is bound to come, and it will not bring you misfortune, but you have already cast a shadow on winter psychologically. It is just because you chose summer and gave up winter that misfortune will occur. .

Happiness is a psychological feeling. Whether you want to be happy or sad is up to you. Choosing happiness is the golden key to future happiness.

People in this world do not live for sorrow, but for happiness, so we should pursue happiness. Understanding happiness is a kind of intelligence and a state. Everyone should learn how to find even the smallest happiness hidden around us, so that happiness will always be around us.