1. "Before a hundred-year-old man died, he had no reason to pursue fame and fortune, no reason to be mysterious, and no reason to waste time. What he said were the last and most important things in his life. ”

2. Living every day “I can explore the unknown self again, and explore the unknown self every day.”

3. When a person is young, he basically lives. Spend all the time you can control on yourself, just like you basically spend most of your time on yourself. But when you get older, past 40, 50, 60, or 80 years old, You should spend more time on other people. "If you are willing to spend more time on other people, your life's energy body will be given a new meaning. This is his view of life.

4. How to live your true self? He said: "Cherish yourself who lives for your ideals, and cherish yourself who works hard for your dreams. At the same time, you can also accept the test of adversity and accept the test of reality, whether it is changed through your own efforts, or even if you work hard Nothing can be changed, everything is God's arrangement, with this belief, live your true self in the unchangeable reality. "So, his advice is not to care about things outside yourself, don't be influenced by other people's evaluations, and let nature take its course.

5. If you can not care about things outside yourself, not be influenced by other people's evaluations, and learn to let nature take its course, you will be able to live well.

6. Judgment of right and wrong by oneself, judgment of praise and blame by others, and calculation of gains and losses.

Judge yourself for what is right and wrong. You know in your heart whether something is right or wrong. You have a scale in your heart. It's up to others to criticize or criticize you. What other people say about you is their business. It doesn't matter what they want to say. Gains and losses are determined by numbers. Whether you gain or lose will naturally be determined by fate.

7. You must cherish what the disease brings to us.

We must thank the disease for giving us the opportunity to introspect. It is also possible that the person lying there is you, and you may also be lying there. You may not have time to introspect or reflect in your life. Live your life, keep pushing forward every day, keep running, feel the need to get more things.

But illness makes you lie down and allow you to introspect. I have seen many people's outlook on life change after suffering a serious illness. Some people have let go of many past grievances, and some people are not so attached to money and wealth. It doesn't matter if they even give away company shares. Because after figuring out that these things are not important, these things are what the disease tells us, this is a feeling that particularly touches me.

8. "When we are alive and healthy, we do not cherish it, and often have complaints and dissatisfaction of one kind or another. When a person gets sick, it is accompanied by pain that is difficult to describe in words. But it is completely dependent on Only with such personal pain can I be alert to myself, who has always been ignorant and reckless, and let myself feel awe and gratitude for health."

9. "I have lived a life of 105 years. As a doctor, I treat diseases and save people. In my daily life, I don’t take my body seriously. Now I finally have the opportunity to take my body seriously. I recognize from the bottom of my heart that illness is a gift from God.”

10. If you want to get more. The most important way to be loved more is to express your gratitude to them from the bottom of your heart. When seeking to be loved, people often use their own ideal love as the standard to ask the other party. This is definitely not true love. . The so-called love is to accept the truest person. If you don't care about the other person and only consider yourself, then even if someone loves you, you won't feel it at all. If you accept him for who he is and the things about him that make you dislike or even hate him, you will be pleasantly surprised to discover the great beauty and qualities in him, and love the truest him, so that everything about you will be appreciated. The other person loves her sincerely.

If you really love someone, even if they do wrong things, you will still find them cute. When you really accept his shortcomings, accept those things that you can't stand, and love him from the bottom of your heart, these shortcomings and mistakes can become things that make you smile knowingly, because this is him.

11. "The Little Prince" is a work that I like very much. There is a passage in it, "Only with the heart can you see the essence of things clearly. The truly important things are invisible to the naked eye." This sentence has profound meaning. My wife's death taught me that there is a kind of happiness that cannot be seen but can be felt in this world. So if we can really understand what it is to love and be loved, we can still feel these happiness even if our loved ones pass away. ”

12. What should a person do if he hurts others with his unscrupulous words? We sometimes say that love is very good, but when people are together, pots and pans touch each other, it is inevitable that There are many situations when I am angry and hurt others with my words. I have hurt the people closest to me many times. What should I do now?

Mr. Hinohara said: "You must make up your mind first. With a warm and soft heart, when you feel that the relationship with the other person has become cold, consider whether it is your fault and try to improve it. In this way, even if the person we love deeply sometimes speaks harshly and loses his temper, we can actually find him or her funny from the bottom of our heart. ”

Because you have to have a warm and soft heart. If you want to say something unpleasant, stop and think about yourself: Am I saying this from a soft heart? Am I enough? Warmth? "If you are warm and soft enough, you can adjust your state, and then when you look at the world, you will find it is full of humor. ”

13. How can you get along well with the people around you and win the friendship of many people? He said that a sense of humor is very important, and a person must have a sense of humor.

A sense of humor is particularly important. If you can look at the people and things around you with a humorous attitude, your heart will actually be soft.

14. What is family? Mr. Hinohara said: "Family is. Eat together. "As long as we can eat together, this is a family. Being able to eat together is a great thing in itself.

15. What is a true friend? He said: "A true friend One or two is enough. "

What is a true friend? He said: "A true friend is someone who wishes me all the best. If this person has not seen you for many years, but he still wishes you better in his heart, This is what true friends are. When making friends, you have to trust your own feelings. If you think this person can become a lifelong friend with you, then 80% of the time it will be like this. "

16. About loneliness:

"Who said life is lonely? Did you come alone when you came into this world? Your mother is there. Didn't you fight hard with your mother to come into this world? So from the time you were born, you were never alone. ”

How amazing, I have never heard such a statement. We all agreed very simply that life is lonely. However, he said that you and your mother have struggled together, and you have someone to accompany you. In this world. Therefore, you must know that love is the ultimate purpose of human existence.

17. He said that it is already very painful to be disliked by others. It’s easy to get caught up in a why-am-I-so-bad mood.

18. Interpersonal relationships:

“Every time like this, I tell myself that I will live for more than a hundred years. I haven’t fully understood my true self yet, so it’s natural for others not to understand me. When I think about it this way, I feel relaxed and can think about what I should do in order for the other person to understand me. At this time, it is easy to have a mentality of accepting each other and let everyone continue to get along. In the process of getting along with each other, I will continue to make new discoveries and new understandings of my true inner self. "

"On the contrary, if you think that the other person is difficult to get along with, you will avoid contact with the other person, and then you will miss the opportunity to understand yourself. So if someone doesn't like you, and someone gives you a lot of trouble all day long, that may be an opportunity for advancement. So if you can think that a 100-year-old person may not understand you, you still hope that others will understand you every minute. "

19. Treat young people:

"You must interact more with young people. Today's young people are not very good, and you can hear this argument many times.

I think this is a self-centered statement. We can completely change our thinking. We are indeed older and have richer life experience, so we should take the initiative to approach young people. Young people may be shy or unable to express themselves clearly when talking to us, but they will become confident and talkative as they grow older. Growing older can teach young people many things. ”

He said: “When treating young descendants, close family members and the weak, they often lack due respect.” This is his reflection on Japanese society.

20. Forgiveness, he said, is not easy to do, but he knows that the prerequisite for forgiveness is understanding. If a person really understands the other person, you will forgive. It is easy for your family to make mistakes. Just accept it. However, if a stranger does the same thing, you will be particularly angry. The reason is that "forgiveness" is the heart, and the heart is the feeling of the other person.

21. If you can’t forgive someone, understanding is probably the best way

22. How to face difficulties in life:

“When encountering this situation, We all ask this question in our hearts, why am I encountering such a sudden disaster? Why is it me? This problem will make us more painful and reduce our sense of value. We will feel why we are so unlucky. We will do this because of this. I felt so deep in self-blame that I even thought that I might never laugh again in this life. "

"In fact, human beings are born with such a special ability, which is the ability to eventually forget all sorrow over time, see beautiful flowers, hear beautiful music, and think of beautiful things. things, we will still feel that it is good to be alive. Maybe you feel sad at the moment, but the moment when you feel good again will definitely appear. Please believe and wait patiently for that moment to arrive. A land, no matter how ravaged it has been, even if people think it will never recover. But one day, the flowers will bloom again on this land. You may not be able to understand this feeling now, and that's okay. I used to be just as incomprehensible as you. Wait patiently for this day, and you will find that because you believe, you see. When you encounter pain and sadness in your life, you must know that the flower will still bloom and this time will definitely pass, because this is human nature. "

23. "I have always had bad luck." How to change? People regard him as a treasure chest, this kind of question is being asked to him. Do any of you feel that your luck is not good enough? Why do you think others are so lucky, and then I am unlucky? Mr. Hinohara gave a particularly interesting metaphor. He said: "In fact, people will face many difficulties in their lives, even those who are considered lucky will inevitably have difficulties. Despite all kinds of hardships and troubles, there are no completely carefree people in this world. Think carefully about luck or opportunity that cannot be seen with the naked eye. But if we are convinced that we are loved and cherished, all the difficulties in life will be for ourselves to grow better. After we get through the hard times, we will surely reap the rich rewards of life. ”

24. I have studied those who have created miracles, and I found that these people have a unique characteristic, which is a firm belief, and a firm belief. This can be said to be a kind of Faith. ”

“Faith is to realize that there are always things in life that are beyond the reach of one’s own strength. It is to believe that there is a higher spiritual pursuit than oneself, so to give up and let go of the inner obsession. ”

“Miracle belongs to those who have spiritual pursuit and conviction. Giving up obsession and abandoning the old self is essentially an inner rebirth. Miracles that we often cannot explain happen to these people who have experienced rebirth. What I have learned is to stick to the spiritual pursuit like people who have experienced miracles. "If you can let go of your ego, you can do everything. It's not based on my own will, it's not thinking about what I can get or what I want to do all day long, maybe a miracle will happen slowly.

25. Life cannot be smooth sailing, and sometimes it is inevitable that you will be hindered by others. When you face so many people who oppose you, what can you do?

"If you encounter this situation, you have to keep asking yourself who are you doing this for?" Have you learned this trick? In the future, when you are unsure, ask yourself: Who am I doing this for?

26. “When I was a child, I think when I was two or three years old, if there was something I didn’t understand or something I couldn’t accept, I never listened to an adult’s explanation. I would lie on the floor crying and fussing for two hours. Every time at this time, the mother will smile and say: 'Will this child grow up to be a great person, or will he become a great scoundrel? '" How wonderful, you know how important a gentle and kind mother is.

"I am really a child who often brings trouble to my mother. She always worries about me, which must be very hard. Because he has a strong personality and refuses to admit defeat since he was a child, and he is not a top student in school." And you know the most The interesting thing is that he was never in good health. "What I am most grateful to my mother for in my life is that she always believed that Chongming was a child who could learn independently without taking care of her. She always adopted a laissez-faire attitude towards me." The "laissez-faire" mentioned here does not mean not caring, the antonym of love is Don't care, "My mother's laissez-faire attitude toward me is her complete trust in me. She is patiently waiting for the day when I grow up and mature."

"Mother loves her children, so she is always full of confidence in them. Expect and always hope that he will become like this or that. If a mother often says, "Go ahead and do this, don't force that." On the surface, it may seem like you are protecting your child, but in fact, it may be counterproductive if the parent always forces you. When children follow their own wishes, they will invisibly impose their own values ????on them. In fact, the potential of children is as unfathomable as the universe, far beyond your imagination. God has given each child special talents. Parents must do The most important thing is to wait patiently. I learned from my mother that patience is the best quality for a parent.”

27. How to stay young:

Others asked him: Mr. Hinohara, How can one stay young? He said: "Doing beauty treatments."

Why? When he was 105 years old, he also tried to do freckle removal treatment. That is, I first want to live a good-looking life. I want to maintain the youthfulness and beauty on the outside, so I do beauty treatments.

Don’t say easily, this is who I am. This is actually a sign of old age. You will find that many of us quarrel with others. At the end of the quarrel, we get anxious and say, I am just this kind of person. Let me be myself and don’t try to change me. This is my characteristic.

Don’t say it easily, this is the kind of person I am. This is actually a sign of old age. You will find that many of us quarrel with others. At the end of the quarrel, we get anxious and say, I am just this kind of person. Let me be myself and don’t try to change me. This is my characteristic.

When he said such words, he actually fixed himself. I am old, so I would say such things. Therefore, Mr. Hinohara’s slogan is keep on going. Keep on going means keep moving forward. This is his motto. Doing beauty treatments means caring for yourself, valuing yourself, and hoping that you can live a valuable life. Then, you

When he said this, he was actually fixing himself. I'm old enough to say this. Therefore, Mr. Hinohara’s slogan is keep on going. Keep on going means keep moving forward. This is his motto. Doing beauty treatment means caring for yourself and cherishing yourself. I hope you can live a valuable life, then you can stay young.

28. How to get close to others?

Everyone thinks you are very close to everyone, but we are not very popular. What should we do if people around us don’t like us? How can we get close? He said: "I am 105 years old, and most of you are younger than me. I have always been careful, especially when giving speeches, not to let people think that I am a self-important person. I reflect on when I Is my speech in bad condition? "That's when I deliberately want to prove that I am great, and I feel that some people are dissatisfied, and some people seem to dislike it, so I deliberately say a lot of awesome things.

29. A great man will cherish his life, be grateful, and be willing to dedicate his time to others. Time is money. In other words, it is equivalent to spending money on others. I think people who spend time on others are great people. ”