A few days before the wedding, the woman's family will "cry and marry". Mother wants to cry, so does the daughter who is getting married. The girl's sister-in-law comes from other relatives and neighbors to cry with her. They cried and complained, crying like a song, as if showing a talent. In the song "Crying for Marriage", there is a "woman" who is persuaded by her mother! Peas blossom and intrigue, advising women not to be too poor, how can wealth become rich? Poverty is not always poor, and people who are good at water are sweet. A woman cried and said, "A grain of rice is hung at both ends, and a grain of rice is pointed at both ends. My mother married me on a snowy night, and I can't stay for a thousand years. A sedan chair was sent to the front of the hall. Dad cried three times to get on the bus door, mother cried three times to lock the car door, Song cried three times to get on the bus, and sister-in-law cried three times to get on the road. "Many people teach women:" March Ming, learn people well, not lanterns, but candles. "Another woman replied:" In April, I came to April 8. I was at my husband's house, and I was short of oil and salt. I learned to be a tea master. "
On the wedding day, the groom should wear a robe, coat and hat, and bring a 20-cm-long silver excavator to pick up the bride. The groom will kneel at the door of the woman's house and ask for the key to the bride's box. In the process of asking for the key, the groom should bow and hand over the prepared red envelope; After receiving the key, lock the box face to face to show respect. The bride wears a red robe and green trousers in response to the auspicious words "red with green is not enough". The bride will also wear a bronze mirror and a red hijab to enter the sedan chair. When the bride gets into the sedan chair, her parents' brothers will carry her into the sedan chair, but her feet can't land. When the bride gets off the sedan chair and enters the door, her mother-in-law has to hide and can only come out to meet the bride for about half an hour. The bride washes her face as soon as she enters her husband's house. After the bride washes her face, the whole family comes to wash it to show their kindness.
It is also very interesting to "open the store" on the wedding day. "Raising the shop" means raising the dowry and paving the way for the future. In Dawang Town, Yangxin, "lifting" can be divided into "main lifting" and "secondary lifting". Young and middle-aged men with complete children and parents must participate in the "lifting process". "Main carrier" refers to the first carrier in the whole "carrier" team, carrying a big wooden box with one or two quilts or mosquito nets inside. In the wooden box, there is a "cloth stick" sachet made by the bride with colorful cloth heads, embroidered with auspicious patterns such as "Happiness from now on", "A hundred birds fly towards the phoenix" and "All the way up". The sachet contains the bride's gold and silver ornaments, photos, letters and other small objects, which pin the bride's longing for a new life. The information comes from online forums.